Hi guys, I finally met a girl that I'd like to see again and I'm having trouble keeping communication lines open. I do know that she's very busy at the moment with a course I did 3 years ago...its all day, all night work. So I'm tryna see whether she's just busy or is just not keen.

I met her 3 weeks ago at one of my favourite clubs...gamed her solid, but didn't have time to qualify before i had to leave. So i just asked "how do i get a hold of you"
She replied, "with my number of course!" and was very excitedly tryna get my phone and put her number in. I said I had to go and she was all over me, hugging and trying to kiss me a lot. I stayed for 5 more minutes, K close, and she said, "you better call me!"

So the next day I texted her saying "you broke my phone when you put your number in and the alarm didn't go off, i was almost late for work...naughty"

No reply.

So i followed up the next day with, "Do you speak text?"
Then I finally get a very enthusiastic reply:
"Everfresh! You biscuit haha I'm so sorry, my phones been the last thing on my mind lately...college is killing me!hahaha, how are you"

I replied to this message and her next one and then she went cold. I knew she was busy so I left it. Then a week ago I wanted to invite her out to party so i called twice...no answer :/ and left a text saying, "call me back when you're free"


So i gave up on her pretty much cos i didn't qualify. Until i saw her out at the same club again...busy my ass!! haha. So i said whats up to her...coldish body language, and told her to wait here til i get back so we can chat. I wanted to test her compliance...and she waited for me so I went back into attraction with low interest, moved her around the club a lot to increase investment/compliance and then qualified her. After I qualified she couldn't keep off me, it was a lot of fun...she kept trying to kiss me and when I let her she went apeshit biting my face and squeezing me.

I tried to time bridge but she's busy with college so couldn't commit to the event i suggested. I wanted to break the phone barrier i had before, so I told her to text herself from my phone and say whatever she likes. I should have called her right then with her standing there as well to try break the phone barrier (credit brad P) but I forgot. I also gave her one of my bangles and said she must get me one for when i see her next.

So i started texting her again and she was still taking forever to reply but it's been better. added her on facebook and I think I'll phone tomorrow. The point is that her interest in me when we're out and her interest when we're apart are polar opposites and I'm not sure what I'm missing? This type of flake isn't making sense to me.

I'd appreciate input from guys who've been in similar situations.

Everfresh