This is a weird situation.

My SPAM and I like each other and for the last few days she's been sleeping in my bed, but only as friends. We discuss things but nothing happens.

Well the night before last, we started hugging because we'd had an emotional conversation. Before I knew it, I was making this swirly patterns on her arms and along the sides of her stomach and it began turning her on. Eventually I was full on kissing and biting her neck (greatest erogenous zone ever), my leg was firmly between her legs, and I reached to grab her boob - she grabbed my hand as I squeezed it, made me squeeze it harder, but then pulled it away. At the same time, she stopped my hand from reaching downwards. She rolled away, did up her pyjama clothes and told me we need to forget that this had ever happened. Crucially, there was no actual kissing.

It could've gone so far, but she feels guilty about her on-off boyfriend. She wants us to continue to be friends, but why would she let me do that to her if she didn't feel attraction? She was so turned on, it's unbelievable.

So my question is, are there any powerful ways I can get her back into the mood? Now whenever I try the swirly patterns, after a few minutes she gently pushes my hand away. I need to know some techniques and some ways of turning her on enough.

It's my belief that I could get her so turned on, she'll forget about her boyfriend for a while and then have to re-evaluate whether she's invested in the relationship (she's not, I already know this).


Thanks!

bad idea! if shes constantly pushing you away and youre constantly trying to turn her on it gets kinda creepy man and she will know that you just want sex and get turned off. what you need to do is take your time with her, talk to her more, keep sexual tension up(dont hurry to touch her), talk about sex in general, this is good time to take care of her boyfriend by subtly communicating that she should do whatever she desires

It's more than just wanting sex with her, we both know that we'd be a great couple and I'd love to have a relationship. But you're right, I shouldn't push, I'll try to continue to build her attraction for me. Might try some NLP - do you have any suggestions? But thanks man for your help!