This girl that's way cooler then me is talking to me and flirting with ME when she has all these other good looking, cool guys. she isn't even keeping it down low, its like she is showcasing the thing that we have going on, why is she doing this? I have pretty good game but i don't know why i'm doubting myself. can anyone give advice on how to keep her hooked on me?

ps:i really don't want to fuck this up

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Sharks get what they want

Keep her by negging her... Keep it subtle... Say things that'll make her see that you're 'cool enough' to critique her... If you just flirt with her and tell her she's beautiful all the time you've lost... You need to say things that puts you in control... Otherwise all I can say is---if you believe they want you, they probably will

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Get it Done:)

I think negging her is not the best thing to do right now. Negs are used in the beginning of your game, to tease her a bit and keep her interested. If you know she is already attracted to you, you don't need to use negs anymore. If you do, she might get the feeling that you are arrogant or something... This can blow her away.

You know she is attracted because she is flirting, you know you have a good game, why is there this doubt? There is absolutely NO need to doubt yourself! Just play your game like you would play it on any other chick. Don't let her beauty destroy your game. Just don't mention the fact that she is beautiful all the time. That's what she hears everyday from all the other guys.

When flirting, isolate her, use some kino escalation,... [b]just play the game[/b]!

[b]Two important things:[/b]
- don't wait too long anymore. Otherwise she might lose interest or some other guy is going to take of with her.
- I have the feeling that your self-esteem is increasing because you feel intimitaded by the other guys. Let this DECREASE your self-esteem! She is flirting with you and not with them! You are more interesting and better!

Grab that chance dude, you [i]will [/i]regret it if you don't.

Vincent


ps.: if you don't know how to kino escalate or something, everything you need is right here on the forum...

Try and think of a reason why she is flirting with you instead of those other "pretty" guys. There must be something special that she likes about you.

don't be afraid to lose her, doing so might cost you her, also disagree with above about negs,

if what you are doing is working just keep doing it, but you need to show her that you like her, get some kissing in and some face time