First post here guys. I see a ton of awesome info on here so hopefully someone will be able to help me out. Long story but hopefully not too long lol

So this girl I knew from highschool added me on facebook last week. I messaged her right away and got up to speed on what she has been up to while also teasing her and being cocky funny. She invited me to go float the river 2 days later and I said fuck it why not. I meet up and see its her, me, and 2 other dudes... fuck me right? I think to myself fuck it I have nothing to lose and these dudes look like chomos anyways, should be easy pickings.

I walk up and introduce myself to the guys right away trying to establish dominance as quickly as possible. We hit the river and surprisingly the 2 guys float off ahead so I paddle over and start talking to her. The next 4 hours are spent drinking tons of beer and trying to have as much fun as possible, not just with her but the 2 guys as well.

Everyone had a blast and we come to the end of our trip and by now she is a bit too drunk to drive. I offer to drive her back to her car and hang out until she sobers up enough to drive home. She is all over that so I say bye to the fellas and we take off. We go get her car and she suggest I drive her back home, no brainer there, 15 minutes later we're at her place.

Now I'm trying to work up the guts to make a move but it's not easy for me. Always been the hardest part for me, don't know why but I'm working on it. We eventually end up making out on her couch for what seemed like forever. Eventually it moves to the bedroom where I F close. I make up some shit about having to be up early so I have her drive me back to my truck and I head home fist pumping the whole way.

She texts me later that night saying "I had a lot of fun! THANK YOU!!!" Ok that's a nice confidence booster for sure. I made sure over the next day to not text her unless she texts first and to always be the one to leaver her hanging not the other way around. 2 days after we hooked up she invites me to float the river again. Round 2, sounds good to me lets do it.

I show up this time and it's just one of the guys from before and this time her cute 20 year old friend... (I'm 28 by the way) I instantly start thinking of how I'm gonna get this girl. We hit the river and for some reason the girl I hooked up with is being grumpy and no fun at all. I take that as my cue to leave and I paddle over to the new cuter girl.

We talk and have fun the rest of the trip (no beer this time ) I try some slight kino and holding intense eye contact and I can tell it's working because she would get slightly uneasy and look away or offer me some of her chips. We end our trip and all carpool back to the other vehicles.

This is where I fuck up... I needed a ride back to my truck and the guy offers me a ride back. I think cool no problem the girls are going back that way anyways to pick up her bike so I will see them again over there. Well the girls ended up going to one of their apartments and I didn't get to say goodbye or try and set up a future date.

Now I'm going to message this cute new girl on facebook but don't know what to say. I want to be careful and not make it too obvious that I'm interested in her cause they could talk to eachother and I might end up losing out on both. It irritates me I fucked up my chance at the end but I still might be able to salvage this one.

The one girl is locked down for sure. I need help getting the new one. Any suggestions on what to message her? That's the only way I have of contacting her right now. Also she did not give me her FB info I just looked her up by her name so my message needs to not creep her out and make it look like I'm stalking her.

Any help is appreciated fellas