Hello everyone, this will be my very first post on this forum.
Recently I have had some succes overcomming the "I keep text messageing her to death before setting up day 2's", in a very easy way. Im pretty sure there are other ways of doing this, but this had lead to some great success for me recently, so read opoun and discuss if you like.
This technique will also overcome a few set-backs that I usally have when gaming girls, since I tend to forget details about their personal life through c1 talk (like, what she does for a living, where she lives w/e, if I had just a bit to drink when gaming). - and EVEN DHV'ing in the meantime!
- I know many people say; "you had hear number for a reason, CALL HER". Im pretty sure that in some countries i/e cultures, it dosn't always work like that. Especially where I live, just calling a girl from the night before (unless you are a master at voice communication through phone, which is damn hard to excell at), would be the most akward thing to do. -
Why im writing this, is foremost because that I personally HATE writing texts, and as many people would agree, meeting / talking directly to girls has a much greater impact on the HB.
The system that I use while number closing, is always to find a funny / sweet way to foremost making her GIVING me the number, without asking - and most important, gives me a good foundament for picking up the conversation in a easy and smooth way (which no ordinary person would refuse to ditch).
This is what happened last girl I gamed.
Opened her in a 2 set (I would recall her as a HB8,5 maybe more I can show a pic if u guys would like, would be fun to see what u think, anyways she had a STUNNING body), having a friend assisting me keeping her friend chatting with him. I used numerous gemmicks, like best friend test, and I eventually started kino escalating her. I DHV'ed her sending her out to dance with her friend without me, when she came back, I moved seat and isolated her further. After a few mins, we bounced to quiter place in the club. After some C1, I let her go, told her to be with her friends (she was celebrating her best friends birthday).
A few moments later, her friend came to talk with me, and she wanted to tell me "thoumbs up for what I did" - NICE. She had often seen guys hit on her, but what I was doing (smart girl
was the perfect thing for her she said, I was the guy she'd been looking for.. I thought to myself, NOT BAD. So I decided to ignore her, untill she would make contact to me again.
- And so she did. While I was talking to my friend, she came up to us and pulled me aside.
She: Hi there, im going to go for a final dance with the girls, my friends wants to leave, but I want to say that I had a great time meeting you tonight (already sending out IOI's, pulling hair, Lips ect.)
Me: Alright, well u2, I had great fun too.
She: - kept starring at me, more IOI's
Me: I took her hand -
She: Oh well, u want to say goodbye now?
Me: nah u wont get off that easy, even though I'd like to
She: So, if im going to see you again - (me interrupting)
Me: Yea I will send you an Owl with a letter, no problem
She: Haha that is very cute, I would love that, but give me your number, and ill text u if it dosnt make its way through
Me: Nah u cant have my number, sorry, ill send the owl
She: Oh well, here is mine then -
- we number closed, had a long hug and she left.
So the next day, I chose to pick up where we left. Sending this text:
"Hi there, I have decided to call back my owl since I was afraid that it could harm your Bird (she keeps a bird as a pet). Though luck, it was hard to catch, haha.. You will have to live a text then. How was your night, did you come home safe?"
By doing this, I sended her a more or less harmless signal, that I remembered her, and wants to get in contact with her, but still not lowering my self in any ways. I also used some of the material I know worked great on her the other night, and showed that I listened to what she said (about her pet).
She replied to the text as I wished, still showing interrest in me. So the next step is to DHV abit. I then texted her:
"I cannot honestly cannot remember if we spoke about this, but did you live in (city name), and did you rly work (here and there - study whatever). Haha well sucks about the bird bla bla." (ending the text in the playfull way).
This gives me the opportunity to get some simple facts about her right, but still keep her in the playfull mood.
The next steps I took was to stop texting her for some hours, then I came back for 1-2 very short texts, leaving her with the situation where she was the last respontant. (I now have the power again).
Third day (today): I waited the whole day out and texted this:
"Hello Hello.. I just realised that usally go skate nearby where you live haha, you should come intertain me for a hour or so (time constrain), that could be rly cool.. - Anyways, I hate sms bombing...so"
Her reply:
"Haha. that sounds like a good idea. That is something that I want to do for sure!
I am not the biggest fan of sms-wars either, so that is just perfect
"
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So what do you guys think? I havnt done this enough to set up an acutal "technique", but it seems to work pretty great. Discuss !
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