iv just been talkin to a mate (urbane legend) about the best places to go for a fun 1st date:

mini-golf and bowling

both really funny and plenty of oppertunity for neg kino and basically game...

dose anyone have any better places?

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You missed out rockclimbing.

Nothing better than taking a girl out to show off your physical prowess and love of adventure.

Plus you can offer to give her a massage if she complains her muscles ache

Rofl, ironically i went on a first date with a girl and we played miniture golf. We both had a blast and at end it got intimate and i could tell she was into me.

For the first date i reccomend a couple of things.
1. Activity
If you go to the movies no interaction. Dinner or anything that is pure talk can lead to very akaward moments, have something to keep both busy.
2. Cheap
Personal opinon if you take her to a fancy dinner/ something really expensive. She might be intimidated and out of place. And if you find out she isnt amazing and worth a second date youve blown alot o moolah
3. Intresting
Aka no movies/dinner

I would suggest
Zoo
Putt putt, Go kart
bowling
Ooooo, that japenese place with the action grill right in front of you is a exepction for dinner rule

i dont reccomend bowling... mini-golfing is more fun, and gives more opportunities for C&F. "Look at that! i put it in the hole!" and as for rock climbing, those harnests make your balls hang out...

funny... where i live there is a tepenyaki grill right by a mini-golf course...

In this situation I suggest mini-golf over bowling by the fact that she will have more of blast from it. Then after playing get intimate with her.

wot u on about lads...

y not try playing chess with her in the local park ahahaha

mini golf is ace but can anyone think of better places to go?

waterskiing?

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i usually go shopping ...but sometime swimming is good for showing off the bod

taking a girl ice skating for day2 today

it worked last time, got sex

anyone else find this works? btw, the last girl i took, couldn't skate at all. she made it a half a lap in 5 minutes and then we left....doesn't matter, it still worked

Snowboarding is always good (kind of expensive if both of you don't have a season pass or coupon- not to mention rentals and such). If you can muscle past those things, snowboarding (or skiing, I guess..) is an excellent choice.

You can show off your skills (if you're good), teach them how to snowboard/ski (if they're bad) - either are DHV's- and BEST of all is...

The lift. Imagine all of the possibilities - DHV stories, rapport building, etc. And if you're straight, I'm guessing kissing was the first thing on your mind ...

The only real downside beside the price (which shouldn't be a real problem if you live in Colorado like I do where practically everyone skis/boards) is the fact that you're not really talking or in much contact during the run itself.

I've done it several times and gotten positive results - its something they will all remember.

My friend, you have to take her mini-golfing! It's so much fun if you're into it like I am!

As it's been posted, all kinds of good kino, conversation, and C+F can come from a date like this. It's perfect. Plus, my favorite little trick... at the end, when you get to that 19th hole, where you can shoot it in and win a perfect game, dont!

Instead, here's what I do: If everything is going great, and the girl and I are having an awesome time, when we get to that very last hole I'll start to talk to her and implement a little improv NLP. Just something brief, keep it rather light. I tell her about my ritual. Whenever I go mini-golfing I keep the ball. I have a collection going(this is actually the truth, I've got close to ten balls). I tell her to take all the fun and excitement she felt from the time we've spent together tonight and package it up, to send it into that little ball. Next I tell her to place the ball in her purse and take it home with her...put it somewhere special. Somewhere she will look at it on a bad day, remember the fun we had together and her day will be that much brighter!

*Optional* Later, tell her you can't believe she stole a golf ball from a mini-golf course. Tell her you two won't ever work out because when you're together you'll only get up to no good. Give a little wink and a smile, and tell her "oh well, at least we've both got a souvenir from tonight." Call her a trouble maker again for good measure.

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all good ideas but remember that sometimes an exciting date can always be great..(hey that rhymed)
i would suggest paintballing or something like that, throw her off by taking her somewhere all the other guys she's dated havent...

SURFING!! i loved this one! back home, i would always end up with the surfer chicks! its awesome when you get them to stay the night because we always left early in the morning, make breakfast, get to the beach and get like 2-3 hours or so of surfing in and you can neg her and game the whole time, then get back to the place and its easy to get her in the shower if you build up enough sexual tension earlier in the morning and youve got it.
or take them wakeboarding/tubing/jump off cliffs etc..
i guess i always got pretty lucky with landing the really adventurous ones!