how do pua's ask a girl out
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THEY DON'T

asking a girl out is putting the ball completely in her court. It is hard to give advice on this unless you can tell us more of the context it is in.

There are pretty much two options:

1) go on an instant date, or bounce her. pretty much, build attraction with her, and tell her that you're going somewhere and that she is welcome to come along.

2) time bridge. make plans to see each other in the future. but not for a 'date' (unless you're being half-serious, but even then....stay away from that word). once you've built attraction (number close possible if you havn't yet).


if she agrees to see you again, and shows up. or if she goes to another venue with you, that IS a date. she knows why she's there (becuase she's attracted to you). By labeling it with 'date' it puts expectations on your time together, and way too much stress. the only time i would suggest this is if she's really in to you, but even then, you're showing too much interest IMO

good luck

ya, mention something YOUR doing, and she can come if she'd like, but going out on a limb takes away you're control.

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Your day two dates should start at your place. Say something like I'm going to a wine tasting today for fun you can tag along if you want. Give her directions to your place and when she arrives. Then bring her inside, and pretend like your not ready. While your getting ready have her sit down on your couch, and come back in the room. Say I have to show you something cool, and flip on some bs movie. Calibrate with kino, and test out her responses. Scratch her back for example, and if she's uncomfortable then go on the date. If she is cool with it escalate to letting her scratch your back, and if you can stay at your place. Have the date their.

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A cool line I got from Mystery is "When I met you, your first impression kind of sucked but now that I've gotten to know you. You seem pretty cool." David D suggests telling a girl that you see her as friend, but then hit on her hardcore. So you can something like I think we could be good friends. Then suggests that you guys hang out sometime. If she says okay. Then set up a time bridge. But mention the times you are busy before the times you free. So say I'm busy tomorrow and the next day but why don't get together....blah...blah..blah. Then just have something to do. Make it something fun you both like to do or somethng your interested in that you can teach her about.