I'm meeting this hb8 tomorrow for lunch. we met last week.and had an average time. she had a bf at the time so I was kinda feeling weird about it. she gave a hug at the end. she texted me later that night saying she had a good time and wanted to do it again.
she broke up with her bf the day before valentines and were meeting tomorrow. she already has attention from another guy on Facebook and I wanna kino q lil tomorrow at lunch and k close before I leave.

I was thinking of using the routine where I tell her to remind me.to give her something later and kiss her. as for kino at lunch idk.
I wanna keep this girl from wanting to shop around since she's newly single

I'm right in thinking she's into me right?

I've been getting into the nlp lately, I couldn't help notice your wording.

"need attraction"
"I wanna keep this girl from wanting to shop around"
"I'm right in thinking she's into me right?"

These are the three thoughts of yours that she will shit test you for.
Is he needy?
Does he get other girls?
Does he believe he is attractive?

Change the thoughts and beliefs you have and you will pass those shit tests and she will like you.

And yes, she is into you. She just hasn't had a chance yet to shit test you since her bf was there. The other guy(s) who are trying will fail their shit tests. How do I know? They are trying on Valentines day and showing that they have no one. Aka they don't get other girls. When you see a guy being total AFC, say, you should go for him, he likes you more than I do. lmao. It'll be done like dinner right there.

Good point hadn't thought that way about it. I may have.thrown to many compliments her way or been to cutesy over text already... if I cut that shit completely is she gonna take that as disinterest? Assuming I k close tomorrow how long till I set up another date?

The fuck is nlp?

How are these shit tests going to be portrayed?
Looking back I think I passed one already, after setting up our first date she said we weren't calling it a date cause she still had her bf. I so I started calling it a rendezvous which is kinda ironic cause its a synonym for date and can mean secret meeting. I think it sounds cooler than date as well, she never corrected me on it either.

NLP short for Neuro-linguistic Programming. It's a scientifically disproven theory that you can embed hypnotic suggestions into spoken word. Some PUA Guru's use it in their marketing to allure customers that are desperate enough to believe anything.

The idea is that you can convince a woman that she wants you, like how in the movie Inception they plant an idea in a man's mind. Ridiculous, as it claims to work through speech and text.

Call it whatever, why do you even have to give it a name? I say "come chill" or "come hang." I just use whatever slang is popular in the city. If she's interested she will ask details, and you can lead the night anywhere. Why waste time dancing around the subject, you want to be close to her.

So she flaked 30 min before date,
Hey I don't think today is gonna be good can I take a raincheck?
No problem just give me a call when you want to go out

I waited till 15 min before to respond. Did I handle it okay?

Just got a reply

Hey sorry about earlier it was crazy busy today and I didn't even get off in time to pick up my sister haha I Definetly still want to hang out though!

should I suggest a new day now and how many days from now should it be?

Well I'm going to try and avoid a conversation about the legitimacy of nlp. It's a communication tool. It really does work but yes.. the claims made by the guru's are far fetched.

It's not so much how long do you wait, it's what do you want to communicate to her. And how will the communication effect how she feels.

If you think that waiting a few days will drive her up the wall and have her begging for you, do it. If you think it will cause her to lose interest then don't.

I can tell you like her because you are sweating the details. The details aren't as important though as how you make her feel. She seems to already like you so you are doing something right. Figure out exactly what it was that has brought you to this point and stick to it.

I always used to get girls chicken out at the last minute.
Every time I'd be like ahh it's okay don't worry i understand or something, then never hear from them again, so maybe not the way to go now, i dunnoo :/