So just a little background...was a gf guy all throughout high school. I'd pick a girl and settle. When I got to college I told myself I wanted to try out the single life. Recently i found out about all this PUA stuff, and started trying to use it. It's amazing haha!

Anyways, I met this girl last week and we hit it off pretty well. We just started the semester (im a college student) in a new apartment and we hang out every night with the same group of friends. We've been all over each other for a week, and the other night we finally kissed for a little. I kinda let my guard down and did things I didn't do with her before (tell her shes beautiful...blah blah being a huge AFC). There's definitely a connection between us, but the night after she seemed like she wanted to have nothing to do with me. She didn't ignore me, but usually she's all over me (not to sound cocky) and she just wasn't. Not sure if this was a test, or her just saying that I blew my chance, or if i did something wrong, but I think i still have a chance with her and don't wanna blow it.

I was thinking about just being straight up with her. Telling her hey listen, Im not sure why youre acting the way you are, but there's definitely something between us and I want you. (If i go down i wanna go down in flames haha!!) thoughts? Feel like its a little crazy/needy to do that after one night of rejection (not sure what else to call it) though, so im gonna try and see how things go tonight first. Not sure how to play it though, would really appreciate any help!!!

Your mistake was being AFC, once she stopped seeing you as a challenge she lost interest. The worst thing you can do right now is to tell her how you feel, because that would make you even less of a challenge. Instead, you should freeze her out. Currently she's acting like a bitch so she's wasting your time. She needs to realize that your time valuable. See other girls, make her jealous. If she doesn't come back on her own you can try again in a week or two. There's no point of "going down in flames" because you didn't lose her yet. That's what I'd do.