First time on this forum and for this question! Really appreciate the help:

I was at this small party the other night and number closed this girl, not a HB or anything but I'm really into her look and style regardless and want to see her again. I had seen her the other night and engaged in multiple jealousy plotlines and group merges around her - so I felt strongly when we chatted for a while. So I see her the next day and number close - and she was very happy to give it to me.

That night I ACCIDENTALLY texted her the nickname of another girl 'cause I was drunk and using my phone wrong - but then I recovered with a smooth quick apology text. I thought I messed up for sure! But at like 4am she texts back laughing saying it's okay and we go back and forth for a bit, making jokes about board games like Don't Wake Daddy.

The following day, yesterday, I decide to throw her a text midday, like 5pm, some quick joke in reference to Don't Wake Daddy. She responds 30 mins later with 4 texts in a row! Including a hyperlink! Such commitment. Anyway - we go and back for hours and eventually she asks "so what are you up to tonight" and I tell I'd be out and stuff and she's like "great i'll find out where you are later, drink and have fun until then".

So I leave it alone - let her text be the one sitting in the air. Anyway, I'm out in the field trying some new gambits out, waiting for her response. And it never comes! At 2am I send a quick "you're missing all the fun!" or whatever text, figuring she'd probably respond at least with something, but nothing.

And now its the next day and I'm wondering - do I do another midday text or ask what she's up to tonight? Should I straight up call her? Or just completely forget about it and wait for her to text me again. Afterall, I'm very confident she's into, her texts were very strong and funny and had a pretty consistent 10-20 minutes response time (same as mine). I feel like this is delicate because I'm pretty into this girl - but at the same time confident because I feel like she's definitely into me, but I don't want to mess up! What do you think?

i think you're acting like an HB....

you need to be a man,regardless if you're into her,"love her",or some other shit...

you seem too up tight,not confident at ALL,and you're giving her too much,too fast,and"hoping" things get good,instead of making sure they do...that's not ALPHA.


i'm saying all this shit,not to hurt you,but to help you...remember that,and absorb it.

welcome to the forum,glad to have you bro!

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Okay, I appreciate the criticism, but would still like some actual advice. I get that you said I'm giving too much, and that makes sense to me - how would I "make sure things go good" from here. So no - I'm not hurt by what you're saying, but I'd like more to absorb and be able to use.

You are acting way too needy.

If she won't respond that means you turned her from a short fuse to a long fuse.

Best thing you can do now is send text pings once a week. These texts should be a funny statement which doesn't dlv to you if she doesn't respond.

The point is to get her back in the mode to seeing your texts and also start replying to them.

Don't send more than 1 of these every week.

You can also bait her by sending a fake group text to dhv.

Something like don't forget today is Kevin surprise bday party. Swim trunks and suits optional. Just be there before 10.