Gent,

I dont know if its just me or what going on but latley ill be gamin a girl at the bar for like 5-10 mins...all is going well...and then her friend(s) (mother hen) come out of no where... steal her.... and then I dont see her anymore. They normally just grab her and run with her... like im a creep or something.

Now im not a creepy dude... and i always lock in when im gaming girls (aka leaning agaist the bar/chair/whatever to make it look like the girls gaming me..) So whats going on here that im missing??

Also i think chasing after her just lowers my value when the friends/HEN steal her.

Also if i confront the hen head on they just tell me "oh we r going to another bar, or getting a drink blah blah boom GONE" like its literally 3 seconds... they drag thier friend (aka my target) away... even is shes loving my company.

Any suggestions to dealing w the HENS? " Or is it something im not doing?


Thanks,
Duke

I hate it when this happens. This is probably one of the most frustrating parts of pickup.

You become emotionally involved with a girl, think that you are going to hook up with her, and then suddenly this mother hen comes out of the blue and takes her away from you. It really sucks.

Usually, there's nothing you can do at this point, because these girls have committed to go on a girls night out. Girls get hit on all the time, and they're not going to let one guy interfere with their evening out on the town. For example, bachelorette parties are extremely hard to game-- the girls lacked friendly toward you, but it's nearly impossible to close–because who's going to hit their best friends party before she gets married?

You have to be proactive. One of the first things that I asked women in a bar is “who are you here with?” This way I know what I'm dealing with. Sometimes friends will actually facilitate you closing their friend–they are out sarging just like you. You need to assess the situation before you get too involved with any one particular girl–that way you know whether to ditch, or to stay. Mother hens are hard to fight, and the best way of dealing with them is to avoid them.

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good stuuf here E,

I really like how you ask the girls "who are u here with". I also ask the girl im sarging to introduce me to her friends and say "thats the polite thing to do". This way im part of their group and its in a non-threating non-creepy way. But yes sometimes there is nothing u can do about the mother hens.. and its sometimes worse if they kno ur hitting on ur friend and not them. they get super jealous and then just try to break it up...cock blocks..lol

any other advice would b great!

Thanks!
Duke

Basically reconfirming what Elliott said, fantastic advice.
I sometimes like to go into a group of 3+ girls, grab the one I want, and tell the rest of them that I am stealing her for a few minutes.
This lets them know I am in charge, and I will be controlling the group from now on. This is good because it addresses the mother hen right away, and guarantees you won't be having any unwanted interruptions.
Furthermore, its always good to a game a 3+ set, because the girl can leave her two friends, knowing that they have each other vs a 2set were the other girl will be left alone.



Something to note, when your gaming a girl, see if she is actually interested in you. Girls have a way to of communicating to their friends the whole S.O.S signs or the help me signs. If your girl is at all displaying this, be sure that the mother hen will come to protect.

Last, by not least. if you the girl your gaming is genuiely interested and you actually feel their is a connection between the two, ITS OK to call out the mother hen when she attempts to steal. I have no problem outright bashing this b*atch because I know the mother hen is just acting her role, rather than actually looking out for her friend.

You see, some women who don't get laid, and are convinced all MEN are jackasses, will actually convince their friends this same bullshit. Than these mother hens go around GUARDING the chicks rather than offering GENUINE protection. If you think a mother hen is acting out of line call her out on it. I had a girl once come back to me and tell me that guys don't ever call her friend(mother hen) out on her bitchyness.

Hope this helps,

Samex