Hey all.. So I got this number on Saturday night. She is 29 and I am 23 so there is a bit of a difference there. Anyways - I worked a little text/phone game (she had a sidekick so I figured texting worked with her.)

When we were talking at the bar on Saturday (This is an HB8 btw,) she mentioned a boyfriend before QUICKLY changing that and saying ex-boyfriend. I kino escalated and built attraction on the initial encounter before number closing towards the end of the night - and then stayed in the set and chatted for longer till the bartender kicked us out (it was well past 2.)

I opened the texting with an inside joke and and told her that I wanted to check out a wine bar in the area and if she taught me some sign language (she is an interpreter) then she could come.

Immediately we started back and forth with joking and a very playful nature. As we were talking she said that she was starting a boxing class and would be busy for the next two hours. She mentioned how she never had been to the place I was suggesting we go (a local wine bar - she mentioned she loved wine on our first encounter) so I said "I am glad you haven't heard of it - we can lose our ___ ___ (rest. name) virginity together! ) Pick you up at 800 830."

I haven't heard back from her yet and it is about two hours past when she said she would be busy until. My question is - do I call her tonight? Or wait until tomorrow and see if she says anything come Wed.? (that's the day I was referring to at 800 - 830.) I don't want to come off needy but I have never gamed a girl that is so much older than me!

Any advice?

your first flaw is making her superior to you because of her age. women are attracted to dominance, so dont let her see that you think she is superior. i would wait till tomarrow, a little before 8, maybe 6:45, and say that you might be a little late because you have to do some thing. this can be a DHV, make sure shes still aware of the date if your worried, annnnd ya.

good luck,

PB

I like Prettyboy's advice here. The only thing I'd add is if you end up hanging out with her somewhere semi private or private, ask her to show you what she learned in boxing class. If she does that's a DHV, she's performing for you. Then ask her to teach you. Goof around and let it be physical. Major opportunity for kino escalation (if she doesn't kick your ass, LOL).

Play it cool, don't be needy. It's no big deal whether she goes with or not, you're doing her the favor of taking her somewhere fun. If she flakes out, go anyway and next time you see her tell her what a fun time she missed.

Good luck, and have fun.

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