Hey! I've met this girl two times now and she seems interested in me (last date she said it was very nice to meet me and hoped to see me soon). If she just wants to play, that's okey by me, but I am also open for a relationship if she wants that.

Anyway, I want to invite her home to me on a movie night or something like that, but for some reasons I can't do that before four-five weeks. First of all I am going to have a phimosis intervention next week (tight foreskin SPAM) which means I can't use my buddy before four weeks, and second, I am now living with my family and taking her home here is absolutely out of the question (I am getting my own apartment in the beginning of March).

I've been thinking of meeting her two-three times before that time. If I don't do "anything" with her before that she'll probably just see me as a friend (which I don't want), but at the same time, if I make out with her on the next date she will probably expect something more to happen before the beginning of March. So I am planning to kiss her on the next or the second date. How should I do that without making it all awkward? I have never kissed a girl sober, but it may soon be awkward, I think. I was thinking about go ice skating with her, which would make it very easy to hold hands, get a lot of toucing and so on, so at least it's a good start. And as I want to start a relationship with her, I am not that aware of "playing my cards right" (as I would on a night out at a club), because I believe it may soon be "artificial". Have you guys any idea about what to do on our dates and how I can make this great moment a bit easier? What should I do next?

Besides, I haven't really told anyone about my little operation, but I would like to talk to someone about it. Do you think I should tell her? On one hand it would make it eaiser for her to understand "my game", which tho may turn out negatively (she clearly understands that I'm interested). On the other hand it may turn out to become a great way to show credence to her, but again, the whole thing with her thinking about my penis operation may freak her out.

Thanks in advance guys, yours sincerely...

Don't tell her about your penis operation.

Ice skating could be good, only if you're ok at ice skating. Don't invite her then be stumbling around like the ice like an idiot.

And how about you meet her once in the next 4 weeks? You should definitely kiss her that time, and then you STOP TEXTING HER. Remove contact!

Otherwise it's easy to put too much pressure on her. You definitely don't need to see her every week, and you should be ready to have sex when you see her again. She isn't your girlfriend because you two kissed. Maintain some mystery, some sense of "He kissed me, but hasn't been texting me. What's going on?"