Boys i been with this girl for like 3 weeks now shes younger and me and what ive heard shes a virgin im not and she knows that because she knows about past girls...well anyway she has came over a few times but not stayed for long and we have only just made out i really am a bit scared to try anything cos you can she shes still a bit nervous..do you think i should ask her about it or just leave it and take my time im sure she will get more comfortable as time goes?. Tomorow shes coming over i did the whole "you bring the movie ill bring the popcorn" line on her so shes coming over and were gonna watch a film how shall i get it going? do you think i should just make out and not try anything and let her get comfortable and wait or try and move further on in fore play?? need help guys shes a toughy!!!

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Dont Hate The Player Hate The Game

Just focus on building comfort before you escalate. Don't make things awkward by asking if she is a virging. Because by doing that you will be doing exactly the opposite of building comfort. Being a virgin is no big deal. She will tell you or you will feel it when you either start penetrating her or when you will start escalating and she gets worried about it.

If the latter thing happens DONT GO ALONG IN THE NERVOUSNESS!!! Tell her to stay calm and know how to handle things.

For now however you should try to focus on being mr. romantic and mr. perfect during the movie. Get her comfortable with you and attracted. The rest should then follow.

Good luck!!!

Buccaneer

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I could not tread these perilous paths in safety, if I did not keep a saving sense of humor. -Admiral Horatio Nelson

What Buccaneer said is good. Build comfort. One thing about building comfort is sometimes sharing a personal story about yourself will allow her to open up about something herself. Its usually a good way to solidify comfort with the chick.
Comfort first, sex second. Trust

Sam