One-ItIs right!well when you saw her with her ex-bf /current-bf (lol) it pissed you off dude you wanted to punch the guy and you werent even dating her.. Now just imagine if you were dating her and that happend? I think you wouldve freaked for real.. Now be honest do you think that'll be the actions of a guy thats emotionaly stable?
My advice is : seeing you have been Demonstrating Low Value of yourself to her,I think you gota DHV,see other girls,do things thatll take ya mind of her.Im not saying give up on her,just slow down.

goodluck dude.. And remember if you fail,make sure you fail in style!

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The MORE you WANT it, the LESS your chances are of LOSING it! -Lol i dont know who said that so ima claim it.

I wanted to punch the guy because I was drunk. But I didn't do anything. I only talked about it with a friend of mine. I didn't nothing in front of her or in front of the guy. I ignored both. After that episode, we start hanging together, like I said, but my problem is that she doesn't give up on the guy. She cheated the guy with me, her BF saw us together waiting for a cab, and they didn't break up. It's been difficult to handle this. I don't talk about him with her, because she doesn't talk about him with me so I think that I shouldn't say to her to finish with the guy. It's not my business. I'm waiting for her to realise that she have to make a decision. I need a strategy to make her break up with her BF