So yeah, i was out for a meal on monday night with one of my sports societies. There's a girl in it that i've gotten to know a bit over the past two months both through her being in this society and in my department at uni. We all went out to a bar/club after the meal, talked to her for a bit there, and walked her home. Sat around in her bedroom/kitchen talking for a couple hours with both of us building kino, so i think she is actually into me. One thing led to another and we did everything but have sex until 7 in the morning.

Now, the problem is that she has gone back to her hometown today for christmas. I tried to arrange to see her today before she went back but she was going as soon as she had finished her uni placement. I won't see her for another 4-5 weeks or so, and I'm wondering how it's best to keep things "alive" before i can see her.

I have her number but don't have her on facebook yet. I've liked this girl ever since i met her two months ago so would like this to work out.

Any advice is appreciated guys, cheers.

Bump. She texted me back yesterday (after I had texted her saying we should see each other before she goes home) saying "i'm off home after placement so will have to be after xmas, but have a good xmas! x".

Really don't know where to go with this :/

I hope not everybody is stumped on this one!

just keep sending her flirty text messages with like week intervals to keep that spark and interest alive, but not too many if you catch my drift. let her know you're still there

Aye that's what i thought. My text game is far from perfect and with texting really being my only option i don't want to balls it up! So... should said texts refer at all to the time we spent together that night? Even before i went back to hers we teased each other a fair bit at the bar and she was playfully hitting me all night.

I mean, it's already close to xmas, so if you do want to allude to that, now would be the time. Express you're still interested in banging her, but if she flirts back once, you know she'd consider physical stuff next week.

She's away on a skiing holiday til next thursday/friday i believe, so i'm holding off texting her until she comes back, but before chritsmas eve/day obviously.

It's not gonna be a week... it's gonna be around 4-5 weeks i reckon :/ she's around an hour or so away from this city that the uni's in so won't be back permanently until around that time. Lame :/

So i texted her earlier with "Is it too late to make changes to my christmas list? I forgot to put a pony on it, and everyone asks for one, so supply might be short x". Doesn't sound too flirty i know, but i had several ideas of how to take the conversation down that road no matter what her reply was. However, i did not anticipate her replying with just "lol! x".

Where do i go from here? Start a general conversation and then go down the flirty road, or wait a bit? Til a couple days after christmas maybe?