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Gambit - maybe this girl can be the same kind of thing for you. Don't make it your goal to have sex with her. Your goal should be to enjoy the challenge of becoming intimate with her -- if not physically than emotionally. If you can convince yourself that you're glad to have her friendship, no strings attached, then you'll convince her and leave her wondering whether she put you in the friend zone or vice versa. Of course, the key is to also be more sexually aggressive to other women, otherwise you just seem like one of these chumps waiting for a girl to "settle" for him.
It's a tough mission, man. But like I said, try to enjoy the challenge.
Wooooooow gentlemen ! Are we not maybe jumping the gun a lil here ?
I haven't struck out yet! hahaha ... But I do see you're point here , the thing is, I'm pretty friendly with her sister and sisters boyfriend. (met them through her , but we got a long because of our odd commonalities)
So if all does fail , and I burn in a steamy pile a shit, then yes ... friends it will have to be.
Although ... after reading this thread again , nobody really answered my question in the first place
... Am I in friends zone already ? or am I on the way ? Judging by her response ? she could have easily just said "yeah , lets lay off ? " I did give her the option ... and also mentioned I'm a straight up kinda guy.
I am still sticking to my freeze out .. (day 2
- No contact /facebook update / bbm updates ) and going forth with what we agreed on regardless .
your question was answered you obviously didn't read the thread I linked you to, it is really simple,
does she talk to you?
will she let you touch her?
will she be alone with you?
will she kiss you?
will she make out with you?
will she have sex with you?
follow those questions in order, if the answer to any of them is no before kiss, she is not interested, get a new girl and friend zone her,
chiefs-guide-to-outer-game-vt75887.html
here is a link to a more specific compliance ladder,
the easiest way to find out if you are in the friend zone, is try to have sex with her, if that seems crazy and so far out of your universe, then you obviously need to go practice, girls are just guys with vaginas, they love to have sex with people they are attracted to, just girls have asd and need to hide how they feel less they be viewed as impure sluts, just don't take rejection personally if it happens, just keep meeting new girls and trying to have sex with them, some will get to a no, others will get to a yes, and all the yes's make you forget all the no's easy,
1 flake, ok shame on her, 2 flakes, ok shame on you, 3 flakes never contact her, let her come to you and if she does come to you and flakes again, ignore her for 2 weeks, and then let her come to you same thing, if she isn't contacting you then oh well get new girls
GOOD LUCK
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