So I've got a situation that I was hoping to get some advice on. I've hooked up with this girl a couple times, but haven't closed yet. This girl has a boyfriend that lives in another state and I'm really not sure how serious they are. She started texting me this morning, so I asked her to come over for a while. It took her 3 hours to respond and she said that it would be dangerous because she has a bunch of work. So I said something along the lines of why not live dangerously and hang for a while, work can be done later. 3 hours later I get the response "Sorry for not responding its just i get myself in trouble when I hang out with you. I have very little will power ." My question is, do bother responding, or should I say something back? Does anyone have any suggestions?

Definitely respond, sounds like you're on the right track to getting her.
The fact that she said 'I have very little willpower' obviously indicates that she's interested in you, if she wasn't she wouldn't have even told you that if she didn't want some kind of response from you so she can gage how much you're into her. If you don't respond and leave it she may just think that it wasn't worth persuing in the first place, but keep it up, move closer to her, get her to open up and she'll start to crumble and you'll soon find out just how serious her and her boyfriend are.

The fact that she mentioned that she has "no will power" around you is not an indicator that she is interested. She is just saying that to tease you. If she really had no will power she would have come to your house. Freeze her out, then wait for her to contact you. No dates with this girl. She has a boyfriend, thats what he is for.

i don't really agree with amazing but agree with stendhal

as i see it you can play it out in diff ways

tell her you're not gonna bite so she can come over, don't reply on the she can't resist you thing, just aknowledge it for yourself and move on

not answer and get a pair of blue balls+no fun

start exploring her bf matter, destroy him, and get her

I agree less with Amazing and more with the other guy. I think the "no willpower" thing is an ASD, so she can later chick-rationalize it as "Well I did tell him and so it's his fault for pursuing."

Just say there's nothing to worry about, let's hang out, and close.

Agree!