Ok this is my problem. As i said before i'm new in the gaming business. I used to be a relationship guy. I've got a day-2 next weekend that i feel good about (she actually called me before i had a change to call her). But i have a feeling this girl wants a relationship. I actually like to be honest about me not being a relationship guy. What is the best time to let her know and how?

do it before you f-close her, i still have to do this exact thing too

i know this girl wants a relationship with me, but i havent told her i dont

so im thinking about taking her out somewhere and sitting her down and talk about our situation

im going to ask her what she wants out of "you and me"

then i will tell her that right now im at a point in my life where i've got alot going on and a relationship will get in the way, so i think it would be better if we would just be friends

it will probably break her heart because this girl is smokin, but we are complete opposites and i couldnt date a girl like her

thats what im going to do

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A lifestyle is a terrible thing to waste.
What I say when I see her is what I'll say.

haha lol. so you just break up. that's not what i want either...

oh well i didnt know you were going out with her already

i figured if you told her before you f-closed, it would give her the choice of going all the way or not, because lets say if i told her that afterward, she would feel used and it would probably result in no friendship

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I'd rather go out swinging than strike out looking.
A lifestyle is a terrible thing to waste.
What I say when I see her is what I'll say.

Hmm you're right about that. I will let her know before f-close, it's the decent thing to do. Hope i do it right and f-close her anyway
Let me know how it went with your hb

just to let you know. i f-closed her.