If you get a chance read power of seduction. Its lists out different personality traits and what makes them seductive. Your girl is seducing you or you are allowing her to seduce you by your statement above. i agree with others by saying keep her around, sarge other HB's, and if she is into you then the jealousy fire will start to burn. Let her see how much fun these other HB's are having with you and make her want to share those emotions with you.

Anti One-itis

OK, this is risking and will need agreement from other forum members, but I think he might need to pull a "I know what your doing" or "I've passed enough of your tests".
From what I've read, she's good at 'The Game' and you know it. She recognizes this after you passed all her initial tests. But the problem right now is that you've both recognized you can play, but your still playing hers instead of her playing your game (confused yet?). So every time you play her game you DLV, no matter how much 'connection' you think is there. Your giving her value by playing her games.

So what do you do?
Shock her system, then take control. Right now she has your personality pegged, and because its pegged it means that your not unpredictable(DLV). So how do you shock her? Easy, don't play her games and call her on it/turn it around on her the next time she tries something. You can even use some AMOG destroyers on her in a group to DLV her.

The idea is, the longer you don't escalate the easier its going to be for her to stuff you in the LJBF zone. Although she does sound like an excellent pivot.

Holden!! You have jogged my memory!! Thank you!!

I've been doing this, definitely. Calling her on what she's doing. Some of the 'bad' things she's said before about it was 'being negative' and 'stop calling me on everything; you think too much!'. I translated this to "You just don't like being challenged", and I should continue... but judging from her tone, I think I have pushed the whole 'mind games' a bit too far.

It's very easy to say, play hard to get, you're the prize etc. But you keep doing it beyond what you judge to be best, and she'll think you love yourself and are an arrogant arse. She has got bored of the games, that's why last night she wanted to get to know ME, the real me, and in return she gave a bit of her.

I think I need some ways to demonstrate some serious value. She knows I'm smart. She knows I know how to get in her head. She knows I think a lot. I wish I had a £ for everytime she's said "OMG I do that too!". How do I take it beyond? without totally being myself, but without constantly playing mind games with her? Any suggestions? Or you still think I should push the catching her out?

I just can't wait to see how it all pans out. I just wish I could remember more of the good things I've done/said.

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“Where we have strong emotions, we're liable to fool ourselves.”
Carl Sagan

Haha well you know she's Canadian! So maybe when she goes back you two can get in touch!!!

Whereabouts u at?

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Carl Sagan

Halifax, Nova Scotia now. Next month I move to Fredricton, New Brunswick for 6 months (work). Then If I get my choice I'll be sent to Edmonton, Alberta for 3-5 years(work). If I goto Edmonton I'll be definately linking up with all the PUA's who come here.

As for your situation. You might have to ramp up your teasing game. David D has some really good stuff in DYD. Like the next time your alone grab her hand, squeeze, then let go say "Wow, don't move so fast". Do it again later. Then the third time she won't grab, so you take her hand and NEG her about being scared and you're allowing her to touch you now.

Oh, I know someone in Halifax and around that area!! You know anyone called Nick!! : P Nick Roberts haha such a common name!!

Love the hand line. Wish I had pulled that one last night >.< Hmm guess i was a bit of a sucker for just holding out my hand and waiting for her to take it. Ah well, I'll change my signature to "Live and Learn"!

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“Where we have strong emotions, we're liable to fool ourselves.”
Carl Sagan

i read the entire post... you have had so many chances to k-close her... you didnt go for it... next time you guys have a moment go for it... its crash and burn time... this way either you get her or u get over her...
i with you though... 1itits sucks... its easy for me to sit here and give you suggestions... its harder to game when you have 1itis. best of luck bro!!