I decided to quit on a girl from one of my previous posts and go to a surprise party with Tavern as my wing. We get in there and saw this girl that Tavern knows that is an HB9.5 and VP of her sorority. I figured now was time to see what I've learned.

We got onto the beer pong table as soon as possible so that we could just make a scene. The target came and sat down by the table because I had started making everyone around the table laugh. Before I even opened her, she opened me with a shit test. I don't even remember what she said, but I replied with: "That's it missy, you're getting the silent SPAM for the next 10 minutes. I'll talk to you if you promise to play nice!" That is where the IOI's began as well as more shit tests. Throughout the whole night I'd cat string with kino and negs. There was one point where we were playing pong with her and her friend (Tavern was my partner), and she just stared at me. (Huge IOI).

After she lost, she came and sat down on some guys lap to shit test me for the tenth time that night. I just kept having an awesome time and ignored her and started talking to the guy she was sitting on. I commented on his tattoos and such, showing dominance, and she finally got up. Shit test passed.

I decided that it was now time to establish a connection since I had plowed through shit tests and DHV'd all night. She was sitting on the couch in the living room between two guys. I walked by and casually asked a question about her song writing (she's into music and so am I so I figured this would be a piece of cake). The problem here was that the dudes kept playing with her hair and shit while we were talking. Maybe this would have been a good time for an extraction?

In any case, I helped her clean up from the party a little bit as people were leaving, but at this point she said she had to get up early tomorrow and wanted to go to bed. I didn't have any reason to get myself into her room, so I just took a hug goodbye (there were people around) and left with Tavern who convinced me on the ride home that there must have been some outlying circumstance that kept me from closing. He said I ran flawless game, but I'm not satisfied.

Here is the message she sent me today:
HB9.5: thanks soooo much for helping me clean up last night! it was great beating you in beer pong and chatting about music

How should I go about seeing her again and building it up to a close. I'm tired of not closing, and I'm getting pissed off.

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as far as pong goes, playing girls is a great way to open and to neg throughout the game. once you destroy them, say something along the lines of "maybe if you're lucky i'll teach you how to play". when you're up, you can go to her even if she's with people and just grab her and say you need her as your partner... but only if she won't mess up. throughout the game is a great oppurtunity to build rapport (especially if winning) and kino (show her how to shoot ).

enough beer pong game lol.

the music thing is a good connection i typically go for also. lots of directions you can go with that thread as well.

sounds like there was zero kino though, which is absolutely essential for the next step.

the "i have to get up early tomorrow" is classic IOD. or possibly that you just weren't gaming hard enough. plus in my experience, sorority HB's aren't even worth the effort, especially the VP's because they've been in the sorority for at least a couple of years and typically have fucked tons of dudes those first few years and have gotten it out of their system.

sounds like you're head is in the right place, just more kino!

ya it sounds like out did most things right, except for escolate. you want to deff try inducing some more kino earlier on casually, and let her see you talking to another girl or two, just so she doesnt get the idea that she's your main or only target. then before the party is over try and relocate, that way your not stuck in a position where its either forced or not happening at all, like what happend to you at the end of the party. good stuff tho. good luck.

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Sounds like u did put some good game down. However, you should not have stopped at any point. When she said "She had to get up early and go to bed" you could have replied something on the lines of "You asking me upstairs?? Sorry, but i barely even know. You have to buy me dinner first before that happens! Also when u say goodbye, I always like to do the kiss goodbye. Point at your cheek and say "kiss goodbye". Its as easy as getting a hug, but I feel it means a bit more. Anyways sounds like you know what your doing so you should be fine in the future! Good luck

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