Hey guys im new to this forum so go easy haha.
I Just need some help when sometimes when I open sets in bars and especially clubs, sometimes they tend to be unresponsive or not interested. It's weird cause i see them looking at me before i approach and i don't lean in etc..
So was wondering what do you guys do if the set is being unresponsive, when u opened..cause the last thing i want is being needy lol.
Thanks!

If your quite energetic when you open turn it into a neg, joke about it and hint she is boring. Or if it is a group neg the least interested one. If they bite continue as normal if not move on.

That happens. All you have to do is remember she likes you but may be a little shy or just might be testing your performance. Just keep on going. Possibly with a neg as said above.

Hey thanks for the quick reply.
Like this happened to me on Saturday night, I saw a set and one of them there kept giving me a sideway glance so an IOI. I approached and said "Hey hows it going..having fun? " and her friend says like one word and then looks away disinterested....but i had that feeling the one that liked me wanted me to stay

So when you said "neg" can you guys give me some examples to continue on that conversation if they act disinterested??

Thanks for the help guys!!

Hey thanks for the quick reply.
Like this happened to me on Saturday night, I saw a set and one of them there kept giving me a sideway glance so an IOI. I approached and said "Hey hows it going..having fun? " and her friend says like one word and then looks away disinterested....but i had that feeling the one that liked me wanted me to stay

So when you said "neg" can you guys give me some examples to continue on that conversation if they act disinterested??

Thanks for the help guys!!

Keep your cool and ask her something about herself or tell a story or something. Just try to get to a proper conversation.

Rip on them or walk away. Who the fuck cares about unresponsive women, when you can talk to someone who'll actually talk back. Either have fun with them (e.g. "My, aren't you talkative!") or walk away.

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How early in the night was this? I go to this one local bar every weekend and try to talk to girls all the time, but they dont get responsive until they get a few drinks in them. There's this one girl I've been trying to hit up at this bar for a few weeks now, but she acts totally disinterested in me when I try to talk to her, but later on, after she's downed a few beers, she chats me up like nobody's business!

ya lol it was pretty early on the night..maybe 8.30pm?
but ya i learnt that you just keep talking and act playful...and if they bite just continue gaming her.

Imagine you are a girl. If some guy tried to open you with "Hey, how's it going?" How would you respond?

I am not trying to be mean--this is probably the most common opening in the world, and the fact that it can sort of work shows that any opening is better than no opening--but... maybe try a little harder?

* So where are the clowns?

* My name is Duke Trytalking and I'm here to rescue you. (From boredom.)

* How do you feel about zuchini?

* Have you ever been sky diving?

* How many boyfriends do you have? (So I know how many I have to kill.)

It doesn't matter, show them that you (1) are not just another boring loser who barely has the balls to say hello, (2) you are not put off by a cold shoulder...

... Neg. on the bitchy friend: Wow, those shoes are not really that bad--I hope she got them on sale.

... Neg., "Miss grumpy tonight, aren't we?"

... Neg., "Let's all do poker face." (Exaggerated body language to show who its directed at.)

But... if the set doesn't open, walk away and do it with a smile and a twinkle in your eye and a tap on the shoulder of the one who did show interest--who knows you may get her in isolation later.

The primary thing to remember is it doesn't matter fuck all.

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