| id like to continue this conversation another time, I've got to run, how can we do that?
you will realize the difference between asking for a number and having it handed to you willingly, our job is to get the number without asking, or subtle asking so, don't just say hey whats your number?
make her feel comfortable enough around you that she would be happy to see you again, thats how you get a number
and if you can see she is the shy type and wouldn't just say, here take my number, use a line like,
-PUA "hmm i should get going, it was good meeting you i hope to run into you again sometime."
which is ok to tie into this if she still doesn't get the hint.
-PUA "actually what are you doing this .......... i got a .......... to go to if your interested"
study some nlp for that one, that way depending on how her eyes move you can tell if she is remember or creating images, and you will know if you blew her out and she is lying to you. if she is lying, this is where i offer my number instead of taking hers and use this method because she is obviously not as comfortable as you want her to be
-PUA "here take my number, id be happy to hear from you, if not i understand, pleasure meeting you"
this is win win because it demonstrates that if she doesnt call or go to the event you are ok with that, ok can mean many different things to her at that point too, like, he is ok with it because he has other girls he can talk to/be with. or he is ok with it because he wasnt just interested in her for sex. i find this approach way less threating then, call me sometime! showing such intent and interest isnt always a good idea....
but you did everything a true networking balla could do, offered an invitation, offered a number, or got hers, and let her know that its up to her and your feeling won't be hurt
more less i like the what are you doing lines because its lie proof, wouldnt you like to know exactly where your at, without guessing?
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