Yes I am a newbie! I really haven’t ever been in the dating scene (I just turned 18). The town I was living in just 2 months ago was an extremely small town. I was the class clown and I chose not to go out with any of the girls. Some of you guys are like, “what a pussy”. The reason I didn’t chase any girls at my old town is because there was a STD epidemic that broke out. It freaked me out plus a lot of the girls were just plain mega bitchy.

Now I am living in a bigger more normal town and I want to pick up the girls and just be more sociable. This is going to be a big post but it would really help my games if I get a lot of feed back. You can never tell me too much or be too harsh. I AM HERE TO LEARN. I have read “The Juggler” and have been reading post here at the forum. It has given me big clue to how girls think. It is kind of amazing that women are horny people too except that they expect us to pick them up. If we aren’t smooth enough and can’t connect to them they either still want to bang us, but would think themselves a slut, or would move on to the next suitor. I might be wrong and I am not sure I am getting the whole picture but it’s a start.

Anyway to cut to the chase, I never dated and I am the sort of person that is fearless. I really don’t care if I make a fool/ass of myself. I only have to live here for 7 more months. The things I need to work on: (please answer the following)

1. First off I am going to a community college with about 600 people give or take. This is the right size of school where rumors could go around. It would be as bad as a high school but there is still a possibility about bad rumors of my pick up attempt. What should I do? I was thinking that I would try to talk to a lot of people in general. So that I just don’t look like I am going after all the hot girls. Plus this might also help me get better connections.

Should I just go for it and sarge with a lot of the girls on campus even though I could easily flop? I know I need the practice. I don’t know of any places in town girls my age hang?

2. I can do good eye contact, but I am not sure if I am over doing it. I don’t want to stare down a girl. She might think I will say, “draw,” and have a show down. Should I keep my eyes locked all the time, 90% of the time, 75% of the time, or 50% of the time. Should I contact feel comfortable? What if she can’t keep I contact and looks down? What if she just stares back? Can someone give me a list at what important eye movements there are?
3. What if a girl says she has a boy friend? I am assuming that you acknowledge that and keep casually talking to her as if you weren’t really trying to pick her up in the first place. What if I start talking to a girl that doesn’t say anything about a BF and then in the middle of the conversation he shows up? I am assuming that you stand your ground and DLV him.
4. I am a running start student which means I am a senior in high school but taking college classes. I am not in rolled in this new towns high school. That means I can’t be on the high school campus. This really takes away a good place to find girls my age. Where is a good place to find girls?
5. Is just talking to a girl a good way to pick her up? I know to add kino and phrase certain sentences right. Could I just talk about what she does and not pull anything really witty, and would that still have a chance to pick her up?

These are my first questions. I am a really fast learner and I have a good inner game just because I am fearless. I not fugly but I'm not a model. I am just an ordinary guy learning how to play the game.

Thanks for reading and post anything (don't mind it being blunt or harsh)
Stallman

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STALLMAN

1. There is a saying 'never shit where u eat'. practise out of college untill u get good.
2.eye contact should feel comfortable. while talking to her look at her eyes and glance at her hands (if she is gesturing) but dont try and stare her down because then u will look like a freak. neva stare.
3.depending on the size or the type of person the bf is depends on the action taken... if he is big then carry on making small talk then slowly make your escape.... if he is a dick then try and win the girl ova and slyly get her number. (read pug books for the methods)
4. why do u need girls your presice age... as long as they aint 10 years older u should be alright to game them.
5. hahaha the answer to 5 in to study alot more... read 'the mystery method', 'the game' by neil strauss and about other big names in the community.

i hope i have helped u good luck.

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Gammbit

I agree with your first answer. I can get my college friends to introduce me to people outside of school. I then can try my game on them. If I fail oh well. I doubt if they were going to find anyone else that would approach them. The more I think of it is that AFC approach slow and cautiously. Most of my friends I talk to take them a month or more to hook up with a girl. Screwing up my chances at the college is the only fear I have because that is a great source for girls. Once I start getting my game down I will start weaving into the college.

Should I pick up girls in day game mode if I am at the college? A lot of the girls I see are either doing homework, talking with there friend or talking to boys. Yes I should be opening sets but I am going to do a few practice runs off of campus. This doesn’t mean I won’t take a good offer at the college if I see one. I just want to make sure I don’t , “shit in my mess kit.”

I have been practicing my eye contact. Wow. It is a bit more difficult than I thought. I have all these reflexes that I have developed through my life that I MUST BREAK. When I have been on my jogs I have been looking people in the eye and saying hi occasionally. Every time I run I confront strangers more and more. I admit that I still choke up now and then but I am improving. In 7 month I will be going to a 4 year campus with tons and tons of hot chicks. From now to then is practice. Does anyone have specific types of eye contact exercises that help improve your ec faster?

Anyway a little story I have to tell. I have been chatting to all my friends try to put DHV spikes in my stories. It doesn’t matter if they are guys or girls because guy will just respect me more and girls will love me more. Let me say that telling a good story is more valuable than just picking up chicks.

So I am talking to my friend that is a girl. She got chewed out by another girl so I walk up to her and I say don’t worry about that.

She: Thanks. I not too worry about it.
Me: Ya I saw that you came earlier to help.
She: I know, she thinks that I need to justify why I wasn’t there
Me: You did your job she just works to much and get mad if you aren’t up the her par
She: Yes, you can work deafeningly too much.
Me: I kind of ramble on about what it is to be a team player. (should of kept it sweet and simple).
Me: any way I just want to make sure you weren’t mad
She: I not and thank you for talking to me
Me: Ya they used to call me Hitch back in my town.
She: Oh really?
Me: ya I used to set up everyone with each other. When they got mad they usually asked me for help and when I moved a lot of people fell apart.
She: oh that too bad (sincerely, she had a look of, wow, I didn’t knew that he was like that)
….
We start talking about a girl with a boyfriend.

She: She had a boyfriend?
Me: Ya, I thought she was also going to be really needy… but she has a boyfriend that can occupy her while I am busy.
She: What, you will be a side dish?
Me: No, I will be the main dish.
She: (giggled)
Me: (I got a text messeage and said I had to go) I closed gracefully and left.

She is just a friend but I had a good little DHV story going on. Not as good as other I read but still, it’s a start.

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STALLMAN

i suppose that the story tels ppl that u know about relationships.. but thats saying to me that yeah i help peoples relationships but i havnt had one myself... i use this as my dhv story

i met a girl on holiday and she tryed telling me that we could only have sex on the last day to which i replied 'yeah u can have sex but it aint gunna be with me.. if u want to shag me u do it now or not at all'. guess wot... i shagged her that nite...

that story shows im confident. alpha. and that i have a sex drive.

the whole pua idea is about how girls want sex more than guys...

talk to starnger no matter who they are abvout absoutly anything so that u get used to spontainous convosations then start openin girls around town...
a pua should open a convo in a matter of secs and have the girl in his grips in a matter of minutes

keep practising

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Gammbit

haha thats awesome.

I think you have tofind something that works well within the context of your personality and your game... I believe that Gammbit's story would work, but I would never use it, why? Because thats not my game, I play the role reversal card HEAVY... So for me stating a line like "the now or not at all thing" would seem dissonant to my personality.

Your on the right path, you just need to find styles that feel natural for you and it will flow together.

I am starting to make eye contact better now. I have made some new friends that are gate keepers. I have improved my story telling a bit but I am still far from a PUA. My goal is to be one when I get Eastern Washington University.

When I have been making eye contact with girls, I would hold their stare for a bit then I would get this extremely hot sensation in my face. I would look away, not down, but to the side like I was sweeping the class. When I would look into the eyes of girls passing me by they would look straight in front of themselves to the last minute when the would look at me. They didn’t smile but they did notice me. My facial expression relaxed, straight faced. Should I have had a smirk or some other facial expression of is just a straight face of curiosity good?

Nothing else really happened today yet. I will hit the town tonight though.

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STALLMAN