Hey PUAs I have a question about negging a HB that is pretty shy....

I met a chick that totally through me off this weekend! She was a 8 pretty hot to me but after I opened her and got a feel for her she was extremely shy! her 2 other friends that where both about a 5 and a 4! where the loud and obnoxious type! By there attitudes u would of thought they were a 10!!

Well i didnt know how far to neg this 8, so i eased off of the negs and her friends took her away and left! I wish i met them sooner! anyone have experienced anything like that in the field... how did it workout?

You should have talked up the friends . . since they are not as hot as the target they are well versed in cokcblocking and giving them a reason to be on yer side is a must.

You should ALWAYS make friends with the targets friends FIRST, before you start hitting on the target. We've all fallen short of that ourselves, but that's what you should always do. And, yes, even at times the hottest babes could be so shy and introverted that negs will backfire on you.

I like to think of UG friend as bodyguards... and unless you happen to have a "non-discriminating friend" at your disposal befirending them is an absolute must!

And remember the yin/yang -- Negs/Kino-Compliments if you over Neg give her a hug and a compliment!

Great info guys! Thanks!

i went through a similar situation the other night bro, the hottest girl was the cutest girl

so i used her friends to social proof myself, once your value is raised by one it will in turn be raised by all.

Hi Guys just wanted to add this


I am in a bit of a weird.. but good situation. I am a photographer for a magazine and my job is to go to clubs, parties, concerts and sporting events and have fun! I shoot people having fun and I get paid for it, pretty well too!

But since I have the camera to kind of peacock myself and usually have all access I already have some DHV spikes already working for me. My problem is breaking that "i'm working persona"

I am very fun and friendly, and as I do need their photo and info (name, age, city) I would like to get in a set with them and start builiding comfort.

I have been shooting parties for years so I am pretty experienced in people handling but as I read a majority of the PUA material (books and articles) I feel that as I have an advantage it is an odd one. Anyone out there care to give me some ideas??

Thanks!

I almost got busted at work for laughing. haha

What the hell is soo funny about that?

it just sounds like your shooting them with a gun.

I bet if you walk up to a girl and say (over your shoulder)"I shoot people for fun" and then show her your camera she'll laugh and then stack forget your at work.

I think it would be hard to take her picture and then get at her, but I'm new at this.

I would completly forget your at work for a couple mins. and run game like regular

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Shy girls aren't hard to talk to. When you talk to her, make fun of her shyness. Make jokes about stuff.