| Oh well so I decided since today was a sunny day to go actually pickup girls.Though it wasn't my first attempt, I only went with the pickup training in my mind (though I ended actually going out in the end).
So I started like this , with the lie opener , and fuck!!!!!! I couldn't do it.I just couldn't bring myself to say such an embarising opener like : Who do you think lies more , women or men? And I say fuck it!!! Im gonna ask them something else (after passing through many many beautiful girls in the street , feeling more bad , which everyone I couldn't go to ), and I decided , to solve my approach anxiety through a simple harmless opener , and ask them for directions.I had opened them , but I couldn't get through the conversation so I left them , all , which were 6 sets! 6 sets of girl , strangers that I stopped them and asked , whether a festival in the town was taking place , or where could I find a handwatch , or where I can actually find a street.
I ended up quite limiting myself , since I was unable , to bring myself to questions related to romantic/sex/etc.
But I also know that I still have AA when I ask a girl for directions (yeah , very AFC , to ask them for directions) , and I found out it takes a bit of AA in the way.
My biggest problem I found is that , saying something romantic,or something deep , related to men and women , is embarising for me , and I can't use that.It's not my type , and I need more experience with romance before I could bring myself to more than that.I can speak sex,but not with a direct stranger.Asking for knowledge is easy for me... and I want to go further , any advices?
So rate my first pickup day,which was a bit , slow , but I learned what I am doing wrong , and I also learned a lot about myself.
Oh yeah , I also find quite embarising to say just hi to them
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