I always wanted to ask , how many girls/women do you guys actually approach per week , or day , so that you can reduce AA,and maybe find a way through this to get a girlfriend?

I want to try pickup , so that I reduce my anxiety of kino escalating a girl I may be introduced to,and I don't really think pickup is the best way to find a girlfriend,but it may reduce your fear of getting with a classmate/coworker/anquintance/HB that you actually know.

So do you think , I should try pickup for this reason? And how often? How often do you guys do it too?

I only sarge one time a week and approach 5 sets or less. I would go more, but I have dates or I am busy.

One mentality I suggest you get rid of is trying to get a girlfriend. It really will screw your game up. It messed my game up.

Instead, even if you don't have 1 single girl, go for abundance of women. It will make you behave lot different around women, in a good way. And I know is counter intuitive to go for abundance instead of just one, but trust me on this one, all your subtle communication is gonna be way better.

Once you start dating bunch of different women, you will have your choice of women, and you will start screening them, and also, when you come across "the one" girl you really like, she is gonna be a lot easier to get with.

Nice advice , I wouldn't mind trying with many girls at once,but I wanted to know if this pickup is really this possible as you guys say(getting dates through this),because unless you are in a place like a pool , or a bar ,or anything like it,it's not easy to pick up girls,since they think it is very weird,and it makes you desperate that you are even trying to pick them up in the street.

Today I approached 2 girls,one that rejected me and thought I was weird asking them if they come at the pool often ,and the other I told them that they were the loudest girls there (though the opening kinda worked , but I didn't asked for number or anything since I was at the pool , and I was also with my little cousing,so making a conversation of it would be awkward,even if it was easy to do so.I wanted to get rid of AA , and I realised that I can deal easily with AA,unless Im on the streets.

Yes, you should try pick-up for this reason. It will make you better with women in general. You will start to understand them and appreciate them more.

I approach maybe once a week, sometimes more, sometimes less. I just go out to have fun. But when I see someone I like, the pick-up materal did improve my flirting.

For example:
1. I go to shop for clothes. My goal: a new shirt.
2. I end up buying myself a subway sandwich.
3. The girl behind the counter is pretty cute, and I start flirting with her (with some PUA material)
4. The girl gets the biggest smile I have sen all day, and I just made her day.
5. I feel great because I just made her feel really good about herself.

Rejection is part of pick up, deal with it.

Like I said, I end up opening around 5 set a night. I don't close them all. Out of 5 set, I close 1. Generally speaking, a lot of girls are cool at bars. Even if they don't like you, they will stick around and talk to you.

Also, you have realize it takes practice. A lot guys get in for couple of months and drop out. I been in it for couple of years, and it wasn't until my first year I got a first date out of pick up.

Wow , that's a bit slow.But yeah , I will try to get numbers and ids the next time I talk with them.I feel like in a year I may have plenty of girlfriends.

I don't do a lot of day game and i love to party and pop some bottles!
I usually game on night and do night/club game..



I approach 10 ladies (More or less) in the club and get numbers and follow up for day 2's.
If i feel that the party in the club is boring i move to another club/bar..

After a day has passed or two i call the ladies and invite them to another party..


Most of the time i end up with one night stands. . .




-TheNaturalPlayboy

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Sometimes when i'm with my chick on the low, I'm a flirt.

Yes it is part of pick up, you know sometimes we may fail and succeed but don't let rejection put you down or anything that people may say about you, just continue what you love to do and don't let anyone stop you from doing what you really want..


My tip for Rejection:
If rejected just put your head up high and who cares what she thinks,perhaps you probably won't ever see her again anyway and smile at her and walk away and never ever look at the ground and have that disappointed look on your face! just walk away like nothing happened then chill for a while and then proceed to your next target..


GoodLuck



-TheNaturalPlayboy

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Sometimes when i'm with my chick on the low, I'm a flirt.

firstly pickup is just learning how to deal with everyday life ... not just getting wemon, so its not at all about the "player" concept alot of people concive it to be, its a great way to get the wemon you want and not have to settle for something much less then people you already know and thats the thing with pickup... its to help you meet other people.. as far as how many wemon do i approach a day at least one a day, i dont really pride quanity as much as qualty, in my opinion a quality interaction beats 100 not so quality interactions any day, besides the more time you spend looking for another girl could be time your talking to one girl, now as far as something to help you over come approach anxiety, ive picked up a kind of game thats worked for me... its called the girl of the day, whenever you see the hottest girl of the day you go talk to her, then you have the satisfaction knowing you can talk to hot wemon, but say you walk away from her and see an even hotter girl then you havta talk to her to, this helps when trying to talk to alot of wemon throught your day, sounds basic but it really helps, if your new to the game i could recommend some stuff to listen to that will definatly help with all kinds of problems, esspecially ones like this, if your intrested let me know and il hook you up man.

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if actions speak louder than words then imagine what your intentions are screaming

to succeed you must learn, to learn you must first fail

Id rather be the one in a relationship instead of some guy id pretend to be...

lol! understand my life was staying in home 24/7 and playing video games before I got into pick up. Now I hardly play them. I naturally drifted away from them. I am a different person compare to couple years ago.

Lol you sound so much like me , that made me happy

I used to approach 3 per day and go out one day per month for like two years. no one to blame but me. now though, i push myself and approach 8s and above only. talking to busted girls or older 40 year old ladies is a waste of time. fuck that shit ! if getting a ten is not harder is just different, then i want to learn the default way to get to sleep with a ten and further. now I approach 5 a day but I believe that I need to approach 20 a day. I need more routines and negs cuz i'm weak at IOD and negging the targets.

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Take a quick Look !

www.youtube.com/allenkvmusic

Stick with it! This shit is hard as fuck! It will break you down, but once you start to rebuilt yourself, you will become a Super Cool version of you. The best part is the results, omg, your gonna love it so much. And yeah, is not a overnight process, it will take a long time.