So I just got back from the casino tonight. This particular dealer knows me and has seen me around with my friends. Every time I've talked with her in the past I've already called her a 'Little Bad Girl' and asked if she's heard the song by David Guetta. Every time I've asked her she's always said she forgot and always remembers the name wrong. Like she'll say 'Good Little Girl?' 'Little Good Girl?' 'Bad Little Girl?' And I'll call her out on it. And be like you're terrible at this. So I've been thinking of what to say the next time I saw her. And tonight I saw her again. And of course, she takes my money. So I ask her if she's heard that song. And of course she forgets again. So I say "How about this, you give me your number and I'll text it to you." She gives it to me. And the following conversation occurs in text messages. Also Ashley is a fake name.

To her 10:31pm: Little Bad Girl!
To me 11:57pm: Was busy on the phone but I'll check on it later! Thx
To her 11:58pm: Lol np. Im coming back with my cousin.
To me 11:58pm: Ok see ya
To me 02:09am: Song is ok. Did u win tonight?
To her 02:10am: You off? Hungry?
To me 02:12am: I'm still working
To me 02:15am: U aren't sleeping yet
To her 02:16am: Nope!
To me 02:16am: Can't wait to get I'm work. I'm tired!!!
To her 02:17am: What time you off? Also does Ashley have a last name?
To me 02:18am: I'm not on fb
To her 02:19am: Do I look like a stalker?
To me 02:22am: No just everyone ask that for that reason, I hope haha
To her 02:24am: I just want your last name so that I can put it in my phone. So that when I meet another cute Ashley, I can put her in my phone and not be like 'woops wrong Ashley' All innocent!

And that's where it stops. I think she was on her break and just got off. At least that's what I hope.. So yah, what parts did I do good? What parts did I do bad? What could have changed? What would you have done? Where do I go from here? Also here's another wrench. So... she's 35. I'm 24. We're both Asian if that matters. I think she was born in Vietnam and moved here when she was younger. Here's the negative part. She's a smoker. I really don't want to marry a smoker. I have zero interest in smokers. But she's really cute. And I wouldn't mind having a fling. I've never had a fling or anything of that sort before but it sounds interesting. Should I not pursue her since she's a smoker?

Update! She just texted me.

To me 04:38am: Np. It's ____
To me 04:39am: Jsyk there isn't any other Ashley, in the one and only!!! :p
To me 04:39am: * I'm

(Again Ashley isn't her real name. It's a foreign name.)

Also the 'Jsyk', I just realized is 'just so you know.'

Oh! I was thinking about how to reply and I came up with this.

"You think you're cute? Hmmmmm... I don't know.. What's so cute about you? How about you show me? "

Is that too mean?

Jcrane5 interesting post do you have an update?

lol jcrane doing it up shotgun style

u got threads on all these different b*tches good for you man!

@maxxxpower Lol, update? I was waiting for you guys to help me on what to say! She says she's the one and only. How do I reply to that? What's a good way to respond to 'there isn't any other Ashley, I'm the one and only!!! :p'?

@papichulo818 Is that bad that I'm doing it shotgun style? I kind of feel like it's bad but I also feel like it's good since I'm becoming friends with more girls than I've ever had. I'm getting more experience with women and losing AA. I feel like I'm juggling too many women at once. I mean I'm not a cheater and I don't intend on being one. My plan is that if I get together with one. I will friend zone everyone else.

Also so I was thinking about doing a social event this weekend. Something like bowling or clubbing. Is it a bad idea to invite multiple girls I'm interested to such an event? Is that a fire waiting to explode?

No dude, you're my new hero! lol

On the real though I admire you jumping into the deep end like that, it takes courage. In life you gotta get out there, get your hands dirty and make things happen to experience success - there are no such things as mistakes, only learning lessons - this is how we become better people. Nothing ever worth having comes easily, keep pushing, make sh*t happen, create your own reality. Don't be like a lot of the peons on this board who sit and ruminate and become armchair PUAs.

Use the same philosophy to move through each domain of your life and good things will happen. Even if you end up as only friends with some of these girls, they can offer you valuable insight into what makes women tick - also, having friends of the opposite sex isn't a bad thing (despite it going against cultural norms).

Keep doing what you're doing!

how about you stop thinking way into the future just based on her looks and actually just talk to her to find out what kinda of person she is THEN you can decide if you want to move to forward?

peace

Alright cool. I think I'll just send this then.

"You think you're cute? Hmmmmm... I don't know.. What's so cute about you? How about you show me? "

Yeah, qualify her like you're planning... then build comfort off of whatever blah blah she says. Toss in some sexualization, then more comfort, then escalate. Before you bang her though, make sure you communicate how you hold your relationships, etc. If you're not looking for a serious girlfriend, then make sure she knows it. 90% chance she won't give a shit and bang you anyways.

On a side note, she's 11 years older than you. You're her little boy toy bro, you can hit that over and over because I guarantee she's horny as fuck.

Hmm... it's been 6 hours since I texted her. Should I be worried? Not gonna lie. I'm a little worried.. Maybe she's at work..

Go to bed, you're sounding borderline obsessive, not cool and she'll smell this a mile away. DO NOT contact her tonight. Sounds like you may be coming down with a case of Onenitis.

She's not your girl dude, she's fine keep your head straight.

Okay. I will do that. Also I was thinking about trying this on her. I figure I don't really have anything to lose. I just came across it from someone's post on this forum somewhere.

“Hey, how’s it going.”

She will say

“Fine.”

You then say

“Cool. What are you doing later?”

She will say

“I’m not sure.”

You then say

“Do you want to come home with me?”

http://www.bristollair.com/2008/outer-g ... se-opener/

I'm not convinced it will work but reading it all. It sounds okay in theory. We'll see.

youre going overboard, relax. Go find another girl so you aren't so hungup on 1.

if that last thing she said was that ___ the one and only. you could find out WHY by saying "what makes you so special? dont tell me you have a magic carpet!" or "what makes you so special? u gota tell me one of your secret talents n ill tell one of you mine"... "my talent is i can get other people to me tell their secret talents haha.."

if you feel its a bit to late to do that just tell her what you did for the day (positive spin on it) without saying it wouldve been nice with her and find out WHAT she did like "had the most amazing day in the park with some friends, how was your day?".

be crazy, be normal, mix it up, have fun with it...