| Come on man, read around. There is TONs of advice on this.
Seperate your approach and Game from the outcome. Yeh ok she can do better than you and you've got no chance, fine. So go chat to her and have a laugh, she'll never want you so you don't have to even worry about that shit, you can just go and have a laugh.
What I usually do to psych myself up (this might sound a bit big headed) is remind myself of who I am, what I do and my successes.
I hold a VERY good job both difficult, manly and highly respected.
I take in WAY above the average salary.
I drive a high performance car.
I go to the gym and i'm physically fit.
I'm above average intelligence.
When I look around the club, try and find someone who is able to tick all those boxes above, a highly successful, well paid job with a sports car puts you in the top 5/10% depending on where you are. I usually look at the woman and think what does she do, how many 'hairdressers' do you meet and she thinks she is better than you because she is HOT. She's just another HOT girl, there are millions, be confident in you. Even if you aren't majorly successful at the moment, focus on your positives and to be honest if you haven't got positives to focus on then let's be real. You need to work on your life as a whole, not just picking up girls. If you live on benefits, can't afford the drinks in the pub, have no goals then really that's a whole big issue in itself!
Remember it's a Game, go and enjoy it. Just remember your material, don't be rude and have fun. If the girl is a bitch laugh it off and move on, i'd probably also take a minute to figure out why she was a bitch, more often than not you probably went in too heavy displaying obvious IOIs before she earned them.
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Tony T
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