Hi all -

I have a thing for older women (Im 22). A lot of times at the gas station or the grocery store there are a lot of older women who are attractive. Sometimes much older.

A few of them have began small talk with me, but nothing beyond that. I've never started the conversation.

I'm sure this is probably very unrealistic, but I want to go home with 1 of them them/take them home and hook up with them. I don't know what the appeal is, I just do.

And its only older women. Maybe I think they don't get much sex or something.

Anyone have any experiences/suggestions? I almost made a comment to an older woman about her ass one time, but I chickened out.

I just don't know how to break the ice at a department store.

Game just like you would for chicks your age, at least for daygame. Club game for older women is a little different, cougars usually don't play as many games and as long as you can DHV and get a good sexual frame you're good.

Any conversation starter ideas for this type of setting?

What are the differences I need to be aware of between game at a department store with an older women vs game at a cougar bar?

Any opener you'd normally use. I'll give you a few I got from Sinn that I like.
"Hi, you look fun, are you friendly?"
"I know this is really random, but I saw you over here and just had to come introduce myself"
Also, situational openers are great for daygame.

The one thing you might have to deal with for older women during the day is her bringing up age, you can either completely ignore it, or use this
Her: I'm too old for you.
You: You are? That's too bad, I'll give you a minute to get over your age if you want. (big smile)

I didn't come up with that, read it on here somewhere a while ago.

Night game with cougars is different because they are more experienced than younger women, and know exactly what's going on. With younger girls you have to go through tons of comfort (unless you use 60's stuff) and have to deal with bitch shields and shit tests. If a cougar is out, she's probably looking for a young, strong guy to take home. You may have to deal with one or two shit tests so she can see if you're a loser or not, but after that, you just make a strong sexual frame, escalate, and you should be good. You don't have to deal with building comfort, ASD, and LMR nearly as much.