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| nashnewbie | PostPosted: Thu Jul 14, 2011 1:53 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Jun 08, 2011 10:24 pm Posts: 108 Location: Nashville, TN | | Hey all, quick question:
When you're in a set and your wing is distracting the target's friends and you've built a decent amount of rapport with your target - how much attention do you give to the friends at the expense of the target?
Example of what I mean:
Opened a three set a few nights ago. Started talking to my target while my friend occupied her two friends, continued to kino escalate and got iois. Wing kind of left set so I had to pull him back into speaking to her friends... but then I also began threads with the other two girls.
When I did this, my target began to dance and such... I assumed to re-engage my interest. How should this situation be handled? Should the target be ignored for a minute or resumed?
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| Slip n Slide | PostPosted: Thu Jul 14, 2011 6:19 am | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Wed Jun 29, 2011 4:55 am Posts: 1232 | | Ideally you would say something to her to keep her involved just before she lost interest.
If she physically walked away to dance, I'd say ignore for a minute, bring her friends with you when you reopen. If she started dancing close to you, she may just be trying to get your attention, give her some and escalate.
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| nashnewbie | PostPosted: Thu Jul 14, 2011 11:41 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Jun 08, 2011 10:24 pm Posts: 108 Location: Nashville, TN | | Yeah, she just started dancing next to me while I talked to her friends. I assumed it was an attempt to re-gain my interest.
I'll keep this in mind for a similar situation.
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