Ok, I searched "Milf" on this website and all I found was you just approach, be upfront, and say "Wanna Fuck?" and you either get shut down completely or nail her. Anyone have other tactics that work, or can back up this technique?

Cuz I've really been wanting to get with an older lady, but don't know exactly how. I also remember reading that making them feel young is very important. Complimenting is good, and use negs sparingly. I was thinking about approaching and being like:

Hassler: You look great in that dress, my ex-girlfriend had one exactly like that, and I must say it looks way better on you
MILF:Blah
Hassler: So what's your deal?
MILF: What do you mean?
Hassler: Wanna get out of here? ( if she says yes...Then take her to lunch or dinner, if she says no, I guess say "Hmmm, maybe someother time, I really liked this connection, we should continue this conversation sometime, whats your number?")

My Wing was thinking of winking and then 1/2 smiling, and hoping they will approach. Because unlike younger women, they enjoy being approached, and it flatters them. Idk though, we are going sarging at Toys R' Us, Babys R' Us, the Mall, and grocery stores 2morrow.

Having an HB 10 is cool and everything, but banging a cougar is legendary.

I went out sarging today and had no luck with MILFs. I only found Senior Citizens. However, there were 2 MILFs but they both had their kids with them. I'll try again sometime, and let ya know what methods work.

I'm currently hooking up with a MILF. She's 9 years my senior. I'm no expert, but here's a few tips I think may help based on my experience:

- MILF at a bar at night alone or with the girls = MILF on the prowl. This is a great pick up spot and it shows which MILFs are available. You have to go to pubs or slightly upscale bars. Many are sick of the clubs or dive bars.

- Dress classy but intriguing. You still want to standout, but you don't want to peacock to the point of being ridiculous. Dress young but stylish. No dirty baseball caps. No old t-shirts (unless vintage). No ripped jeans (unless designer). But remember, you still want to offer something young and different then the old guys she's used to. So nothing that makes you look too older (sweater vests, conservative collared shirts). She wants a younger guy, but not a younger guy trying to fake maturity.

- Drink a classier drink. Don't pound bud light after bud light. I sip Jamison on the rocks. It helps you stand out, and makes you look less like a frat boy and more like a man experienced beyond his years.

- Canned openers are fine. But nothing too juvenile. Situational openers or intriguing questions are useful.

- Speak eloquently and with confidence. I cannot stress this enough. I've picked up more than one older woman, and each time I feel its because they sense a MATURITY about me. I'm young, exciting, but she's not going to feel like she's robbing the cradle. Also, do not treat her like an older woman. Treat her like a woman you are attracted to and are trying to have stimulating conversation with. Keep the sexual tension there. Steer clear of subjects that mark your age differences (ie kids). If she mentions it, be cock-funny about it to show it doesn't bother you and that you can handle her. If she says, "Honey, I'm much older than you." You can say something like "Really (sly smile), I thought there was something extra intriguing about you,"or simply say "Yep" with a mischevious grin (stay silent after saying this to increase tension).

- You don't only have questions, you have answers...about life, philosophy, career plans, etc. You are sure of yourself and understand the world better than someone typically your age. This is a HUGE turn-on for older women. Older women I've been with have commented multiple times how different I am than a normal person my age on a confidence, intelligence, and maturity level. Then we've hooked up. I don't think this is a coincidence.

- You can be more direct with older women. They don't play as many games, and they don't care if they are seen as a "slut" as much as younger girls. So if the convo is going well, throw in a few sexual innuendos if you like. Make sure its funny, though, and not crude.

- Make her laugh, obviously.

- In general, your conversation should be less juvenile than with younger girls and the range of topics should be more mature. Don't talk about the latest pop song or teen movie. Philosophy, life plans, DHV stories, information on cars, wines, beers, world events. You get the idea.

Hope this helps.

-Esperanto

Yea man, thanks. I'll be sure to keep all of those in mind.

Esperanto, Those keys are golden. That should be pinned for newbies as well.

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What in the world is wrong with picking up women that have their kids with them???

Imho there is nothing wrong but I think it is somewhat of an inhibitor.

It shouldn't inhibit. Actually, you could use the kids to turn up the tension, the attraction factor. Most moms LOVE a guy that knows how to handle kids.

Nonono you don´t get me this can inhibit the MILF, I love kids

The only way I see it inhibiting the MILF is if she doesn't have anyone to take care of the kids so she can fuck you.

Hassler, as far as your direct approach is concerned i have also heard the same thing. My dad told me this shit. Im kinda leery of it but i wont knock it till i try it.


good luck in your endevours

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Yea, I have yet to field test any of these. 1st chance I see some MILFs though, I'm goin 2 try some of it.