whats up guys im new to this whole PUA thing.... i used to think i was pretty good ONCE i met the girl... but opening was always my problem... i just have that whole anxiety thing going... but im trying im trying... so hopefully after spending some time on here i can get a good routine going for opening and closing...

so i tried this opener on some girl last weekend... and being that it is halloween weekend there were some costume parties... i was thinking of this opener.. and i figured it could be a good one for a HB 7-10... and it worked really well.. so i walked around... and i was at thi sparty and i couldnt get a costume in time cause my cousin called me to go with him the same night... so it was short notice... so i had to go in normal clothes but luckiley i wasnt the only one... so im there drinking my beer and having a good time.. when i see this HB 8 or so dressed as a sexy cop.. she was all around her friends so i waited until she strayed far enough from the flock for me to open... so she does and i say...

ME: so i didnt know that cops wore uniforms from the thrift store (in a playful manner)
HER: what? (smiling.. kinda gigling)
ME: yea i saw that same outfit at the thrift store down the street(while laughing at the same time in a playful manner)
HER: well look at you... i saw ur outfit at the goodwill thrift store.. (in a playful manner)
ME: no... this was salvation army.. (i said that just so i can seem like i had a sense of humor.. and to show i dont get all defensive if i get made fun of....)

so she started laughing at my comment... well we laughed together... i continued with DHVs and more negs... eventually we ended up in her room... (the party was at her house)...

so this kinda worked for me.... figured since tomorrow is halloween maybe some of you might want to try it... just let me know how it works out for you...

I went to a halloween party last night and tried out a number of openers based on costume that some other people might like to try.


If she's dressed as a cat:

8b: "Why did you come as a rabbit? I dont get it...''


If she's dressed as a witch:

8b: ''Omg! You came as Harry Potter! Thats awesome! Where's Ron and Hermione?''


If she's dressed as a devil:

8b: ''Oh hey again! Sorry I didn't catch your name earlier, how's your night going?'' (acting as if you were talking to her earlier)
HB: ''What? I've never met you''
8b: ''Seriously? I swear I was talking to you earlier with your friends, I stole your horns remember?... Oh man you're right, there's so many people wearing that costume tonight!''


If someone's dressed as a celebrity (I dont know why they would be on halloween, but there was an HB9 dressed as Amy Winehouse last night):

8b: ''Hey, I'm sorry, I don't normally do this kind of thing, but my friend over there is a massive fan of your work, do you think you could pose for a picture with him?''

Then when you've taken the photo say something like ''Nah, that came out rubbish, lets try again'' Then give your camera to your wing, go put your arm around your target and pose, hollywood style. When the photo's taken say, ''That looks awesome, thanks'' but refuse to show her. If she wants to see it, shes gonna need to give you her email/facebook



Hope these work for anyone who tried them, I had a load of success with them last night, they all worked to open at least once and I used that camera routine on a couple of sets and it also worked well

Happy Halloween

halloween is so great because this is the only holiday where girls have a good excuse to dress down in public and it is accepted. i like negging them a little and just saying "i like that costume youre almost wearing!" they always seem to get a kick out of it then just neg them again and say so youre supposed to be a ____?? then just be creative and open them up a little bit