ok so i see this girl around campus maybe a 9. i went to a strip club the other day with a few buddies. i find out that she works there how do i approach her?

Approach her at the campus, away from her work just like any other girl? Her being a stripper doesnt make a jelly bubble arround her you know

Approach her at campus and NEVER, EVER mention that you saw her at the strip club. Feign total ignorance of her job.

Beware of strippers, though. They know every manipulative female mindfuck con-artist tactic in the world, and they also tend to have very low opinions of men from working there. In general, they're the classic attention whore: don't forget that she's making lots of money by seducing men she doesn't give a shit about into throwing money at her and showing her with compliments. Just look up stripper blogs and message boards on google to see what most of them think of men. It's not pretty.

Also, another thing about strippers is that a lot of them have mental problems and drug habits, even the ones who are going to school and apparently have it together outside of work. That lifestyle corrupts them.

In general, strippers are just wastes of time and probably money--they'll find ways to make you pay for shit before you even realize it. I've layed a couple over the years and tried to lay many more. Now that I'm older and wiser I'll never make that mistake again.

Care to post some links to good stripper blogs and forums? I'm really interested in some good sordidness.

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the problem is is i kind of know her and she called me out in front of my friends by saying oh hey jj whats up

Err - Hey *insert name here* how you doin'? So listen, i was wondering if you wanna have a drink with me sometime during this week? Don't see the problem, since you kinda know her, you shouldn't be in the friend zone i guess..