Im pretty new to this scene in a sense that I started my infield stuff 3-4 weeks ago and today I did my second daygame round and I still cant go direct I mean it is not that im afraid I have done already total 65 night game approaches and 15 day game ones but it is that direct approach just doesnt happen. Im perfectly calm not worrying doing my warm up sets etc and still for some reason I just dont do direct openers!

I cant really explain it but im not even a little nervous or afraid or anything like that but when I see girl and im supposed to approach I just walk past her and tell my legs to stop and go there but I keep walking and this is almost retarded.

Anyways Today went a little better than last time. It seem to be so that I get better everytime in both night and day game. I had some today 1 very good set where girl was very attracted to me but I didnt want to ask number because I forgot to qualify her. I mean I was too long in story telling and only one banter line. All conversation was natural nothing canned for me as usual.

I would understand if I was shitting in my pants and didnt approach but since I had about 40 night game approaches done I dont feel nervous at all in normal sets. Bigs sets are hard and those I dont like. I have nerver been harshly rejected during my time of training the game. If girls reject me they give me subtle clues or apologize via touching and vocally.

I just wanted to write something and maybe if someone have had same problem with direct he could help me!

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OK, you have to find your style!

I don't really do direct openers like telling a girl she's beautiful or that I like her style or something.

Qualifying is extremely important! But don't do it in any kind of prepared or faked way!
Think about what you like in other people and girls and scan her for that.
So let's say you like talking to creative people, then just tell her that!
How will she react? She will tell you in which way she is creative and start qualifying herself!

But you really have to think about YOUR style. Don't just adopt every technique. Think about if you could imagine yourself being that way.

Hope this helps you!

I would not recommend waiting until it's time
to approach before coming up with the line you're
going to use. It's much better to know what to say,
even if it's canned, then to have nothing at all.

Find some D.O. lines that have been field tested,
and try to understand why it is they work. Once
you understand why such a line produces results,
then you could create your own opener...

You didn't get the number because you forgot to qualify? Who cares? It's not like the girl is sitting there with a checklist and will be like "well, you generated attraction and built some comfort, but you didn't transition from C1 to C2 properly, so even though I like you, I can't give you my number" !

Just keep going out and having fun with it. We teach the idea that you should do some warm up pranks and things to get yourself in a fun frame of mind, and not worrying about whether the set goes well or not, or about rejection.

Check out this video series, which can get you immediately started on how to do direct approaches with confidence, whilst having a great time! http://www.sashapua.com/get-my-free-vid ... t-approach

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Thanks Ryan! Anyways I will back on daygame in sunday or monday weekends is reserved for pure night game. I will keep you guys posted from any succesfull approaches maybe there is someone even more newbie than me who can learn something and most of all maybe I get some feedback.

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Daygame session number 3

This day went to hell! I flirted with some girl in shop and she started flirting me back and my face went red and there were like 20 ppl watching this.

Then I took bus to downtown. Bus was immensely hot and I started sweating and soon as I got out of the buss cold wind started blowing and it was horrible yet worst thing was that I didnt want to be there not today. I had forced myself to go out and try to approach. I walked the street and literally there were no really good sets at all most girls were with 2-3 friends because there is some special day and all kind of stuff going on there. I walked for 1 hour in cold talked to 3 girls and only to ask some retarded directions to places that I already know how to get.

This kind of reminded my first 3-4 night game nights where I really wasnt enjoying myself at all. I hope this will become fun like night game if I keep pushing but right now I feel devastated, cold and disappointed to myself. How the hell can I fail like this. I just hope I wont be sick coz this.

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Hey,

Im in the same situation.....no matter how many sets i approach there are just some times where i just dont enjoy it.

This moments come and go it just depends on your personal mood. The way we react to situations including this completely depends on the mood of the person.

So if your down obviously you may not do as well and vice-versa.

I was the same at a nightclub i frequent where i just wasnt enjoying it so nothing seemed to work

This disappointment part comes mainly due to me pussying out and still not doing direct approaches I mean I can do them in bars etc. I think I might be able to do direct daygame apporach on very good set and in conditions where day isnt the low selfesteem day. Wtb bigger balls tho..

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