Ok this is something I've noticed I struggle on a lot..

I have trouble thinking about what to talk about with a girl in a club when I open her.. Like I can give a girl eye contact and if she stares at me back for a bit and I can tell she's attracted, I can go up to her and say whatsup but then what.. My mind goes blank

I'm not sure what the appropriate thing to talk about in a club is when it's loud, most people are dancing, or drunk.. I think this is why my approach anxiety kicks in, I can go up to a chick and open up but i just don't know what to talk about with a chick i've never met in my life and i'm in a club with..

I just think that having a conversation like "so what do you do for a living..?" would be boring as fuck when you're in a club, i'd imagine it'd have to be exciting or something..

this is where my mind goes totally blank, this is probably one of the main reasons why I don't approach girls, in or out of a club.. I need help please!!
thanks!!

Just ask her to dance

Hey man, I think your problem is that you tend to overthink too much. It's not really about what you'll say for your opening, but how you do that. Using the right body language and confidence is the golden key. The best ones make idiotic sentences sound cool

PS. i think this should be usefull for you : google 9 Ways To Stop Overthinking Everything

Without being rude, you have no clue.
Go out and buy Mystery Method and read... you now have the basics to build on.

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Follow 3 sec rule... if ur confident u can whatever the fuck u want and they''ll like you
its OK to make girl friends at the club u dun have to pick em up, that increases ur value

If you are bad with conversation, try having a canned opener. My canned openers are usually something I can bounce off of and go into something else.

For instance, last week, I used a canned opener. I honestly can't remember if I got it from somewhere, got an idea about it from somewhere, or made it up. Doesn't matter.

Either way, I opened a girl saying something like:

Me: Hey I need an opinion on something
Her: Ok
Me: You've heard of the Maury show right?
Her: Yeah
Me: Well, my friend got a call from the producers of the show this week and they asked him to come onto the show
Her: As like a guest or to be part of the show
Me: To be part of the show.. Yanno... "You are the father" type deal or something crazy like that

Long story short, she rambled on with her answer, and I bounced from that to something about her ever being in any crazy situation like that. That turned into her asking me the same question and I gave her a story about another friend who was in something similar. That turned into us talking about kids and so on and so forth.

Basically, every time the conversation bounced, I would either have a story for the situation, or would make up a story. Doesn't really matter if it's true or not, just needs to be interesting. Once I get tired of story telling, or feel that the conversation is dying, I pick it up again with some other crap like palm reading, mind reading, magic, whatever. It all has to flow though. Usually one of those in itself usually starts up a fresh conversation and by this point she should be comfortable enough with you where she won't shut up and you don't have to worry about talking. Which again, in itself is good and can be used as a neg.

routines.