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Hey guys, I dont know a whole lot about this pua stuff so I was wondering if you could help me with a opener.
Basicly the story is I have this one class really early and most of the time im half asleep and not really paying attetion and the other day I had to take a make up test with about 10 people and noticed this really hot blonde. I know she doesnt know I exsist we sit on opposite sides of the room and the class is big. The biggest problem I have right now is that next tuesday is our last class and I most likely wond see her again.
Like I said im not pua, but I was thinking of maybe just going up to her and asking for her number but I dont know what to do lol.
Do you guys got any ideas ?
Thanks for any help.
DO NOT GO UP TO HER AND OPEN WITH ASKING FOR HER NUMBER
I have the same problem because I'm in university and heres how i did it
i wait for class to end and whenever she gets out to the street/public i would stop her in the street and start a conversation from there.
Now here how i open
I let them walk ahead of me and then take a mild jog to catch up to her and i tap her on her elbow, make eye contact with her and then walk in front of her path giving appropriate distance so that she doesnt get to scared, then i motion with my hands for her to stop. This conveys that i completely expect her to stop and talk to me
The actual opener i use is currently
"Excuse me, Hi! I dont want to be weird or anything but i just noticed you from over there and i had to come say that your i think your absolutely adorable and had to see if you were friendly as well. Whats your name?"
I know you might be a bit skeptical about how effective this opener (its from Ryan Oceros) but i can say that i field tested and the worst response i got from using this opener is that they are really flattered and alot of Thank yous
Its one thing to read a post here on the forum but its another when it happens in real life. Girls actually told me that they respected the amount of courage it takes for a guy to open this way and that deep down they like the feeling of being desired
from here i usually start a conversation bout what she doing at that moment or what she plans on doing. Ill find something i want to do with her like maybe have lunch or get a coffee or something or whatever. Then try to close
"hey i gotta get going in a sec, but hey lets meet up for blah blah. When are you free?" work out when u guys are free and then number closing is easy
Theres more to opening, but this is how i am getting started and i hope it can help you out