so at my local shop theres this short HB8 who works at weekends I have thought of everything to get atleast a converstation going but my mind is blank and I've came to the masses.

for example today I had just got back from the gym and I went to pick up a pizza there and my opener was going to be "just buying something "healthy" after the gym" being a sarcastic hoping for a giggle atleast then when the moment came for me to speak she interupted saying "do you want a bag?" throwing me totally off track with a que behind me leaving with nothing but a polite thanks bye.
I,ve only been doing this 3 months yet I can kiss close 3 times and leave with 5 numbers most nights the conclusion is my game outside anywhere with a bar sucks and I need a solution, my usual desperate path is resorting to finding them on facebook attempting to display my text game (wich is probably my best quality) but it never gets anywhere.
thanks for reading I hope u can all help with my situation or atleast turn it into a situation
- dirty preacher

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I think that every successful man should have 3 women at his funeral. One that's crying, one that's smiling and one that's buying things on her laptop with his will.

I think you've given yourself so much time to evaluate and analyze your entire approach that you've kinda crippled yourself. Think about it, each time you see her your anxiety builds because lets face it, you don't want to say the wrong thing and completely turn her off...in other words, you dont wanna fuck it up. You really need to tweak your thinking and get into state. reason you probably have no trouble opening and closing in the bar is because you dont care. ( or at least "as much") There are some really great threads here on the forum that deal solely with day game; i think you would benefit from it.

Girls are girls man, whether they are in the bar, or working the counter at the local shop. you just need to know how to calibrate your game to fit the different SPAM.

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beat me up, and ill fight right back

thanks man had like over 70 views on this and no replys really appreciate it , I'll try and check out some day game stuff have you any links? I got the book the game and its mostly about getting girls in night clubs and stuff only day game moments in it are from ross jefferies and I dont really beleive in his material.
I'll try another opener on checkout girl today wish me luck

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I think that every successful man should have 3 women at his funeral. One that's crying, one that's smiling and one that's buying things on her laptop with his will.

I work as a cashier and I can give you my two cents.

Try and catch her in a good mood. Look to see if she's smiling at customers and interacting with people or if she's quickly bagging and just moving on to the next one.

I've had girls trying to flirt with me when I'm in a bad mood, and I'm just not in my A-game. Even if I do find them cute, I brush them to the side and am curt and just want the fucking day to end because my job sucks so much.

But if you catch me when I'm happy at work, and you flirt with me I'll most definitely flirt back or sometimes even initiate the banter.

But yea man don't put her on a pedestal, think of her as just another opportunity and not as your only option.

Oh and if you think you're being clever by saying something like that, you're not. Cashiers see so many people in a day we hear the same openers and lines day in and day out jesus christ.

You have no idea how many times I hear the "I came in here for toothpaste and look at all this stuff I ended up getting HAHA"

I'm sure she's heard the opener you're going to say, I know I have. So you won't seem original, just annoying. Think of something truly original to say.

But since I'm new to the PUA community I wouldn't know a good opener, maybe a slight neg? Don't know, someone else will probably help you with that one.