I went to the mall and i saw a cute asian girl working at GameStop. Id say shes a 7. But I talked to her asking what games and such and such. Then used a my friends new girlfriend found pictures in his dresser of him and his ex. Did the cube test and talked about school and such. then movies and other games. I wasent being cocky, just funny and I made her laugh alot to. I ended with this:
Me: You seem really cool. 2 things, I need your number and I might have a party on friday.
Girl: Nope cant give that while I'm on the clock. I get off at 9:30.. No 10:30.
Me: K I might be able to come back then, I'll see you around though.
Girl laughs and says by.
I am going back tonight for sure, wtf do I have to lose. Im wondering if this an IOI for sure. I mostly made her laugh most of the time and she was on the other side of the counter, Opinions???

I'm pretty sure that was a shit test, especially since she laughed right after you agreed to her (you let her win! and you should never let them win! lol)

so for one, that puts you in the frame where even when you do get the #close, she's under the impression that she can get what she wants from you (you'll buy her dinner, be nice and sweet to her... and she is in control of what is going to happen).

you'll have to redeem yourself if you get the number by acting a little more cocky/alpha. you have to put the frame around you that makes you look like you have better things to do, that you're of higher value than her... and that she needs to qualify to you.

make her qualify by throwing more negs, being c&f, and DHVing. you don't want to seem to needy or eager. if you get her number you should preferably call her within 2-3 days, not right away.

also be weary of the LJBF zone. ATTRACT her, maybe do some kino and show that you're not just looking to be friends.

good job just going for it. if you're in the game, every set you open is great practice, try to learn from every single one. try to observe and find out what's really going on in every situation rather than just going with the flow of a good conversation. great start, keep it up. hope this helps =)

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by Casual (Age 20, Upcoming PUA)