Ansfield 2007.

Recently I have seen a lot of talk which ain’t exactly all to the benefit of the reader. So from now on am going to be posting a continual free to read post.

This post isn’t hearsay, or learned lessons. Its Psychology.

My names Kris and am going to show you how PSYCHOLOGY, is the way forward.

Last week a friend asked me to explain something to him. How should I put myself across? BIG question. But I can safely say my friend even though a hell of a pick up artist, can be sometimes seen as a little socially aware.

Ansfield (2007) created a study that is an awesome example of how to show yourself from the start.

He found that if something negative happens to a person and the person ignores/fails to recognise it, he/she will is seen as “ less socially appropriate ” and less socially “likable”.

So the idea of blasting through, ploughing and any other just ignore it ideology is clinically proven to be the wrong approach. The best approach is to be seen to understand the emotional position of the other person.

Notice it, punish it, move on.
Reference: Smiling When Distressed: When a Smile Is a Frown Turned Upside Down, Matthew E. Ansfield.

Any questions ask away guys.

To be honest, im completely lost.

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“Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable.”

Im really into psychology as well and would love to hear more

Shit me no wonder people don't learn..

Some guy got his dick stuck ina women and got more replies, ok that wasn't strickly true, it was a cat.

Yer basically in order to know your socailly 'savy' to use a phase, you need to be able to notice and show that you understand the situation. E.g.

If anyone is a dick to you and you don't somehow notice it even by obvoiusly ignoring it. you signal a lack of intelleigence.
get it?