this is my first official post on this site, but dont write me off just yet.

if youre an AFC or a noob and you are stressing about trying to remember all this stuff, dont.

relax.

out of the openers i have read, and the ones i have tried. the one that works consistantly is "hey, how are you?" "sup playa" "ohh heyyy" (said with the right energy) something so simple. these women are just normal people (well...most)

how would you want a random person to start a conversation with you???

if you have an opener in your head. just think how you would react if someone said it to you. tell your target what you would want to hear. (seems fair)

i would then manipulate this into a situational conversation (something relating to what she is doing i.e buying something presents/clothes/drinks at the bar) but i happen to be a funny person so mid game is where i have most of my fun.

which for me will lead to a few negs, some cocky/funny banter blah blah blah


forgive me, im rambling. long story short. dont over complicate things. its just a conversation where you decide whether or not the person you are talking to is worthy or not of your time and effort.

and im not saying my way is best for you. but this is something i wish someone told me long ago.

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