Hey guys,

I haven’t been on here for awhile, and I know that the game has evolved.. So there’s a lot of gurus here that could shown light in my dilema.

Here goes… Me and my 3 other friends were in a club. One girl (HB 4) opened me and said if she and her friends could come and hang out in our vip area. Since the night before was a bust, I said that’s fine. I didn’t really care. So it was a 4 set, 3 HB and one gay guy. About 5 minutes, they took two of my friends to the dance floor. I guess one of my friends wasn’t feeling the vibe so he went back. At the same time, another girl (HB 9) opened me. She asked if me and my friends wanted some company. To be honest, I thought she was a hooker at first, just on the way she said it. But then she told her friends to come over, and one of them was, in my opinion, an HB10. The other two were HB7.

So, HB9 was very interesting and gave out IOIs. I invited her to have a seat with me. She complied and I ran some game on her. Ran the cube routine and went perfectly.. She got comfortable and pretty much drop her shield. The whole time, she kept telling me that she loves my vibe and she was having fun.

I escalated kino, holding her hand and squeezing it, and she squeezes back. Gave her a hand massage and when I talk, I get close to her ear almost to her neck. I always keep an eye contact with her. I even played around with her pulling her hair, then massaging her head. She had both her legs on top of mine while my arms around her, so as you can tell we were really closed.

Now, here is where I wanna know where it went wrong. To our left was her friend (HB10) and my friend straight lip locking while on my right was her other friend (HB7) lip locking my other friend. We were in the middle just talking and laughing. Occasionally, she and her friend on her left whispers to each other. Then she told me that she was not the type of girl to kiss in the club. Having her legs on top of mine was already a big deal for her. So, I said that’s fine coz I was having fun anyways. So in the end, she told me to search her on Facebook, which was stupid of me because I don’t really use facebook, and I should’ve just number closed. I was already buzzin at this time but still no excuse.

A couple of days gone by, and I found her on Facebook. I left her a message “Hey I’m not sure if this is you, or even remember me from Lavo, I don’t really use Facebook ” I know lame right?! But I had confidence with our connection thinking another opener wouldn’t matter. But she hasn’t replied back, which kinda bothered me in the beginning, but I’m over it. Now I just want to know what went wrong? She opened me, talked, negged, played cocky funny, ran a routine, negged, laughed. IOIs were flying everywhere and the only thing missing was a K-closed. WTF???!!!!!

I would say what went wrong was that you didnt kiss her. Prob to much talking not enough sexual tension. Sometimes you just gota go for it, even when she says she doesnt kiss in clubs.

Eg. The other night im with a girl, shes talking blah blah and i i go for the kiss, she turns away. So i said "ahh you have a bf" which she says she does and how things arnt working for them. I let her talk abit more then stop her and say "let me give you a taste of what your missing out on" and the rest of the night she was kissing me and wouldnt leave me alone.

Another example, couple nights later im out again, was a friends bday and going away party, shes easily HB10. I caught her looking at me through the night and when i could i got her attention and had a chat etc. Towards the end of the night im thinking ill give it a shot, said i was going back to the other club and ill see her around, went for the kiss but got immediate resistance. The point to this story though was i went home thinking at least i tried. I had no regrets and no thoughts of what if.

So thats what you should do next time, dont wait, if the girl is that close to you, just go for it.