| you might have been too direct, which leads any group to close up, and go nope get out. If you're out during the day, its tough to just go up to a group, because they're busy, for me, it has to be totally indirect, as if you're just making small talk, or you have a thing you need to do. If its at night, all girls are on the defensive because they're expecting people to come up to them.
What did you actually say as you're opener? i find its gotta be less direct that how're you guys doing? or are you having a good time today/night?, but also more interesting than weather's nice today?
Its the lamest thing to get a sarcastic 'fuck off' response, my only advice to avoid this, is to go in even more indirect. I find the more random your opener, the more indirect, and the less threatening/chat up line-like it is. I opened a girl with her headphones in with 'do you know anything about artificial intelligence' and we started talking about robots, and minds etc. it was great.
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