Man I feel like such a loser. I have been going out lately, and I've tried to talk to people but I just can't get it going. What am I doing wrong. I am starting to have doubts about this whole opinion thing. I mean it's one thing to start the conversation but then I keep dying on keeping the conversation active. Key in point, there is this cute girl in my class, I was invited over the other night to hang out at a friends house. She had just returned on vacation from Chicago, which I know all about. I started talking to her about it, and she seemed sincerely interested in what I had to say, and I had plenty to say since I had lived there previously, but once that was over, I could not transition into an interest vibe. I don't know how to make that transition. I feel like I had the perfect opportunity she was interested in talking to me and I totally had her isolated but then when we got done talking about Chicago I was a lame duck. What am I doing wrong. How can I make that transition. The sad thing is I know I could get this girl but I just am fucking shit up.

look around the forums and spend some time yourself getting some conversation pieces to fallow and prep them next time you know your gunna chill with her. importantly tho, altho she may be interested in what you have to say, you learn a lot more about what makes her tick about asking her questions, specificly, open-ended ones that can lead to other places. opinion openers work because you can neg they're choise, flirt/argue, all that jazz, but get some more topics and get her talking. and move to a new setting. get her number, go out. but most importantly, have something interesting to say.

Thanks for the reply I will take that into consideration next time.