I really need help on this topic... Im curious if there is a good opener or routine to use when adding a hot girl that you don't know on Facebook???

I have a friend who add's every hot girl he see's on Facebook... although 99% of the time he doesn't know them... Even though Facebook Isn't the best place to start talking to girls, it has the largest amount of possibility...

I recently added a HB9 and said something like:

HB9: Hey, thanks for the add, do I know you?

Me: Hey, we have some friends in common and to be honest, I thought you were stunning! I wanted to know what your about... ]

She hasn't replied... so please, I would love some advise!!

I know it was a very direct approach especially for a HB9.

Please help, thanks

Nay, Nay, and thrice Nay ! You're putting her on a pedestal, remember YOU are the prize !

HB9: Hey, thanks for the add, do I know you?

Me: Not yet, thank me when you do

Fly Guy makes a valid point... well written (props) - just build on that with a question relating to the obvious...

- If there is a picture of her doing something, making a face, or even wearing something unique capitalize on this and mention something that relates. This will get a convo going. i.e. - if there is a girl and she's at a beach try, "not yet, thank me when you do... Is that ____ beach?" or "do you always catch such tiny fish?"(poking fun) if she was holding a fish obviously... These are just random examples I pulled from the sky but I'm sure you get the idea.

I'd say you need to move onto the next one though, that comliment was a little too aggressive in my opinion... Good Luck!

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For the love of god do not say that, its incredibly corny and self-centered. Any girl with a brain would not find that attractive, they'd just say 'what an asshole' and forget you.

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If i had to have a swing at this face book game, id attack it from a few ways

- set up photos in profile, with me and hb8-10 to creat a little bit of social proof
(and less of me looking wasted)

- make ur "info" interesting and creative, hopfully creating interest so she'll want to know more about you. hopfully

- i wouldn't send them a post



id probly start with qualifiers and compliance tests, and like manna said, be the prize. then once it got rolling, prob cocky funny.. and its better to burn out then to fade away, so once the convo starts to fizzel, say you have somewhere inportant or different to go. eg: feed the turtles or movies with the little sister.


PM: good evening there lass

HB: hello

PM: we have a friend in commin and i saw you look interesting (more than meets the eye etc)

HB: yeah

PM: are you a intesting person?
PM: what was the most exciting/fun thing you did last yr/in ur life?

HB: jumped out of a plane/saw someone live/did something

PM: aw great, ur the luckyest. i could be right about you. ok, heres a bit trickyier one

pm: whats three things about you that would make someone want to know you better? (turn it into a game, add more between the lines, but those questions drag more out of her( if you feel game say it can't have anything to do with her occupatio or looks - compliance test)

hb: this, this and this
(could just comment and keep the convo rolling off that, or i love mysterys routine)

PM: thats great thoes are all good trates to have . the most important things i think a woman should have is eg ,good energy, good attitude, great oulook..
uve got two out of the three
but ur off to a good start

HB: what arn't i?

PM: my mom told me never to be rude to strangers

ect

if u get out of her that should going out, make sure you ask about it next convo, easy talk time. and then after a little of C&F id burn out after the ice is broken, and try to work on the next stage of the plan.

theres that many girls on face book, if you kept trying and tryed a few different ways, some will eventually click.

good luck, hope it helped



PirateMoot

Thats really helpful! I like the suggestions... keep them coming...