well its my second semester in college and in my history class is this girl, who to me looks shy. I wanna talk to her but i dont want to ruin this, so can u guys help me out a bit?, and what opener shud i use, how can i build dhv in a environment like that?

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I'm new at, what I call, "structured" game so take my advice with a grain of salt. However, getting the disclaimer out of the way, I've been with a good number of girls/women. I was once in college (for 6 years) and I have some experience in this department but I was just winging it the whole time. Here's how I would get results:

The goal here is to get the girl into a situation where you can show her who YOU are (DHV). The most natural or indirect way to do this is to set up a study group (not study date). Befriend some people in your class and suggest meeting in the library a couple nights before the next test. Now you've got to get girl to join the group but first she has to know you're there.

Most people sit in the same general spot during class. Get there early and either sit in her usual seat or somewhere close. Pretend to have problems hearing the Prof, leaning in and copying her notes. She WILL notice, don't be creepy just say "sorry, I can't hardly hear this guy." Now, you can do this a couple more times or just go for the "can I look over your shoulder?" "Yes," you just got a polite IOI. Be careful with taking this too far because this can come off as DLV. Make sure your tonality is slightly cocky but polite. You want to sound like you're in disbelief at the Prof's lack of interest in teaching his students (i.e. it's his fault you can't hear not your fault).

After class find her and tell her thank you! Start making up BS. Say you went to a concert with your friends the other night. You had front stage tickets and now you may have permenant hearing loss (jokingly). Tell her if you keep having problems taking notes then you may not be able to keep your "A" (DHV). Ask her how she's doing in the class. She says good, bad, whatever, you say "some people I know from class study at the (place) usually at (time) the night before a test. We usually only let smart people in but we can make an exception for you!" (neg).

Now you HAVE to study the night before the meeting. This is where your DHV spikes will come from. Make her feel comfortable and lead her to believe that you f'ing know everything! Cocky/Funny. This is not a study session but a date where the topic happens to be History and you're f'ing historian! You should be totally laid back.

Bring a bag of tricks with you as fun shit to do during study breaks. Candy, ipod that has everything on it so she can pick music, anything above the normal BS. Bring a deck of cards and play Egytptian rat screw to take your mind off of History. Girls LOVE this game and it involves kino (look it up). Walk in drinking some starbucks and wearing some casual smart stylish clothes. Keep the mentality that you're the f'ing man and she should be happy you chose her to study with you. However, you do want to listen to her and put her on a star/point system when she's getting things right or wrong. Make studying a fun learning game and she will be anticipating the next test so you can study with her.

Hope that helps
-Engineer

hhey thanks alot,I will surely try this. I have another one for you, i was jus wondering, what can i do to come off as the leader of my group of friends ?

and what can i do to portrait dhv in that class

I've never really thought about how to become the leader of a group. I've read something (from Mystery I think) about body language and mimmicking the actions of your boss, I'm not sure. There's stuff out there about how to be more alpha. Of course becoming more alpha takes practice and will not happen over night.

In order to take immediate control of a "study group" just try to hold all the keys. These people don't know each other. If you're the one setting up meetings, keeping the phone #s, etc., then they will naturally feel you are the one that knows what's going on. Also, studying your shit helps. You're the "smart one" of the group. Just don't let them walk over you. They should have to work a little to get answers from you. Basically, don't become the nerd that does eveyone's homework rather the cool/smart guy that can put together a fruitful study session. Don't pick any alpha types for the group. He might steal your thunder.

At your age, showing DHV to a girl should stay simple. Your ability to draw attention to yourself through skilled conversation is plenty of DHV. Sit close to her before class and strike up conversations with the people around you. If you're trying to set up a study group you'll have to do this anyway. Tell jokes, be funny, relax and you'll come of as popular. Social proof is all the DHV you'll need in a classroom setting. Leave the gimmicks for the clubs.

The funny thing is, this is how I got into engineering. I was in business school and decided to take a calc class. There was a girl in the class that was hot and I ran similar game (I also was trying to impress the hot ass T.A.). The difference is I somehow got into her study group and boned up on the material before we actually studied. Trying to come off as smart resulted in my acing the class. That's when I decided to switch majors.

I hung out with that chick one night and thought she was a nerd. I took her home and kissed her for less than a minute when she started going down on me and it was on! After that we studied the night before each test then would have sex after every test. She had a boyfriend in her home town and wanted nothing else from me. Damn I miss her! Don't ask how I landed that deal because I don't know. I had no game at the time and she was the 1st girl I had been with in probably 4 months.

hey thanks man, hers some more info on her, shes a model, but just changed coleges so she is a lil to herself, any suggetions

Did she just offer up the model info? How did you find this out? Changing colleges doesn't necessarily mean she keeps to herself, this just means she hasn't really met anyone yet. I've made the mistake in the past of thinking a shy girl in class means she's all sweet and innocent and I had to be Mr. Nice Guy to impress her. Then I would see this girl out at the bars. Her titties popping out, ass cleavage and thong for the world to see. I was shocked! Every swinging dick in the bar would hit on this girl. I had been playing such AFC game not realizing I had a damn 9.5 on my hands.

For your situation, if you've been talking to her before or after class don't interview her. "Where are you from?" "What are you studying?" You know what I mean. Also, just because she seems shy, that doesn't mean you shouldn't neg her.