i met this girl at a club a few weeks ago # closed and called her once to chill and i cancelled when i called her again her phone was disconnected and she called me from another phone talked for a li bit and it was cool.

When i called her on the other phone it was disconnected so i decided to next her but a few days later she found me on facebook so left a message and its hard to be c/f over the internet and she i think it didnt go well. like a week later she replies back so wat im gonna do is try to see if there is a new # i can reach her at right away cuz im tired of wastin time.

any replies would be helpful

whats your question?

if she replies at all over the internet thats good. I dont think you want to go too much into internet convo especially if you dont feel comfortable at it because thats like a step backwards, so I think getting her number is fine. you might have to rewarm her a little bit with your textmessage if you think she isnt comfortable or attracted enough yet, eventhough she obviously is interested in some way. if you neg do it with "; )"
I would write something like "how do I know you are really you and not just a psychotic 65 year old man? give me your number, i promise i will call you everyday at 3 AM 12 times" but keep in mind i never encountered your situation.

i undrestand, the thing is its hard for me to be c/f when leaving messages cuz they might not get the joke as if i was telling them in person. i sent her a message but she takes forever to reply so im not really goin to stress out about it and thanks for that line trece im gonna use it in the future cuz that will work.

You just need to stay away from sarcasm. Aside from sarcasm you can usually do a decent job of being C&F online. If you can't, then just don't.

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