So, you're going through openers. You're browsing the web for lines that can get you 'in', that can get you through that first barrier, so that the women you want will actually listen to what you have to say. Great, I'm glad, you should endeavour to have women listen to what you have to say.

'Hey guys, my friend's just moved here from Manchester...'
'Is there more to you than a pretty face?'
'Oh my god, did you guys see the fight outside?'

Tried them?
Did they work?
Sometimes yes, sometimes no?

Does that maybe tell you something?

Here's a secret:

There is no ice.

There is no proverbial, mysterious barrier that you need to break with these openers. Eliminate that concept from your mind, because it is a very powerful limiting belief.

If somebody speaks to you in a totally relaxed, natural manner, as if there is no ice, you will naturally respond as if there is no ice.

Think about it; ever had someone make a joke when you were stood next to them in a lift, or at a coffee shop, or something? You just laugh, right? You don't even think about it, you just laugh. It's natural.

It works just the same in set, I promise.

Just remember,

there is no ice.

Behave as such!

Skylark

This is just the kind of thing I needed to see today.

Thanks man.

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But the thing is - when you see a HB who you want to speak to, you feel as if you MUST think of something good to say to get her attention. Hence there is pressure and ice to break. But for any other person you ain't attracted to, then you do act as if there is no ice like you say.

No, salad_fingers, you don't and therein lies the limiting belief. What will get her attention is you behaving as if she's NOT any different to any of the other people; as if you're USED to there being NO ICE between you and attractive women. That's what sets you apart from the other men; being totally comfortable with her.

Very good point, Skylark! There was one time, I thought the dude infront of me was one of my friends, so I slapped him on the back and said "Hey! What are you doing here?". When he turned around I realised that I have never seen this person in my entire life, so I got a little frightened, but I didn't tell him that I mistook him for someone else. He was slightly confused for a second, but did answer my question. Of course, I scrammed after that

There is no need to break the ice when you think that there isn't any between you and the person you are talking to.

Yeah, absolutely. If you look at Gambler's stealth attraction stuff, he actually does 'familiarity' openers, where he just goes up and says 'hey, how have you been?'