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PostPosted: Thu Nov 25, 2010 10:13 am 
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I met that girl through a friend two months ago, I went to a pool club with a him and he brought with him some firends and among them she was, during the evening I decided to run a "game" on her, I started with a trick of the XL, what turned out into a success - she gave me her hand so I do the same thing, I sat beside her and started talking about some 20 minutes until the guys join, and the conversation ended.
That evening I didn't take her number because I knew I'll see her again.

We meet once every two weeks (because of my leaves) with all the companions and I always isolating her from the rest, creating a physical contact (touching lower back, hand ..).
Two weeks ago I invited her to come with me to film the day after, she said that would be cool - I sent her a message on Facebook "My offer is still valid. Write down your number and we set an hour." She didn't answer my message but we chatted since then (Is the first time I ask her number but not the first time initiated by the type of date).
I talked to my friend about it and he called her last week, during the conversation he asked her about what she thinks about me - she said many good things, then his question What about some guy she replied still not ready for relationship because some reasons..

I really don't want to give up on her because she is really different from anyone else I meet/met, thought she's not that easy-going girl like others, I feel that she either running game on me (although I doubt) or she puts me on tests.
Should I tell her that I'm sick of that attitude? or keep initiate 4-eyes meetings until she agree?

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 25, 2010 4:00 pm 
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"My offer is still valid. Write down your number and we set an hour."
Lmao... Not gonna lie, thats a pretty lame way of asking for her number. which is why you probably don't have it. Sometimes with game, its better to stick by what is common sense than to try and be tricky and use game talk. I bet you would of scored her number if when you saw her, or even on fb, hey do you text, well have my number and we will be text buddies :)

All girls do tests, and no she isnt running game on you. Don't tell her your sick of her attitude? what attitude, she simply doesn't want a relationship, you can't get mad at her for that, obviously your game isn't tight enough otherwise she may of considered it.
but whatever you do, dont call her out on her attitude, if you do, your chances are 100000% gone


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PostPosted: Thu Nov 25, 2010 4:15 pm 
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i agree with the post above as it pertains to your situation....

calling girls on attitude tho I do this all the time.. but it has to be in a playful way like
"you keep up the attitude little miss and i'm going to put gum in your hair!!"


but it doesn't sound like shes giving you attitude at all it sounds like shes "friendzoning you" really.... like what has she done "wrong". She might enjoy time with ya but if YOU arent escalating it somehow then nothing is going to come of it..... also its always good to get the number SOONER than later..... sooner means "maybe it'll be fun to hang out lets exchange nums"

later means "well i love you so now i really want your number... so we can get married"
maybe not that extreme.... she probably knows ur romantically interested and wants to avoid escalating it now to something thats gonna end with a headache and her feeling bad.

you might have blown it for now i donno you can try

if you can control yourself, freeze her out.. dont msg her for a week or two or a month.
if she doesnt msg you.. shucks.. but you can reinitiate then in a much less invested mindset.

"hey i totally forgot about you! lets hang out next week... text me "

or if you dont want to rely on her. then start a convo the same way but say something like "how is your so and so doing" or whatever.... then after reply since you know shes getting and reading ur msgs.... reply with.. "cool lets hang out and catch up...ill text you when im free what was ur cell? tty soon"

keep it short and "feelings-less"


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PostPosted: Thu Nov 25, 2010 4:35 pm 
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By saying Attitude, I meant that she's undecidable, I mean, she avoid of telling 'No' so I won't get hurt but on other hand she's not telling 'Yes', so I won't have any expectation.
I just don't wonna seem like a skirt-chaser by asking her out every time I see her.

Sadly you right - I got into her "just-be-friends zone", now I'm trying to grab myself out of there by reinitiate every opportunity I got - but I seems like going nowhere..
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if you can control yourself, freeze her out.. dont msg her for a week or two or a month.
I only get see her or speak with her every 2nd weekend, that means I need freeze her out more then a month.. and that sucks..

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PostPosted: Fri Nov 26, 2010 3:57 pm 
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Find another girl... Think of them as like roads to a location, all lead to the same thing your trying to get to(whatever it is that you want) Now find a road that is much shorter and has less turns and stop signs and less intersections, much easier to drive? Exactly, find an easier girl, otherwise you may waste 3 months with this girl for no reason.


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