Hi im fairly new to this. There is a girl in my first class (highscool) whom I've been wanting to talk to for some time. She smiles at me when we make eye contact across the alley and I smile back, but I've yet to be able to start a conversation with her. Another thing is sometimes she stares at me like im the only person in the room, yet other she acts like I don't even exist, like when walking by me. I've talked to her once at a party but I was piss drunk and don't remember it. I know it wasnt anything too significant as I was told I was talking to her friend mostly. Any ideas on what to say or how to approach her? The class is a bowling class in the morning at the local bowling alley, I also see her in the parking lot after the class.

Thanks in advanced, Aaron.

Dude, just talk to her.

If you wanna have fun with it, just accuse her of sexing you up with her eyes

"Hey - If you don't stop i'm going to have to compain about you. I see you looking at me... undressing me with your eyes, that's sexual harassement!"

or

"If you have a crush on me why don't you just ask me out... I see you looking at me!"

if she denies it, just blow her out and walk away..

Then see what happens - she'll' be staring at you even more, and then you make fun of her even more for giving you rapey eyes

what's the worst that could happen? you'll have a funny conversation. stop being a bitch and just make fun of her/talk to her.

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Nice Sasha!

Though I am going to repeat:

DUDE, JUST TALK TO HER. ya only theres more emphasis this time.

Slow burn the attraction phase though because she is in your class and with other classmates around watching it creates a weird vibe. Show her your a normal guy, which it sounds like she already knows this by giving you the IOI's. Something that worked great for me in highschool was just inviting them to go out to lunch with me (if your allowed off campus). Then when you two are more isolated away from the school SPAM you can really kick up the attraction! I wouldn't recommend doing this in the classroom because it creates a "this guy is wierd hitting on me" vibe, unless you can pull that off because you have great body language and the social proof that says "that's who you are". So what will work great for your bowling scene is bring the energy and fun into it. If she see's your the funnest guy there, the opener will go much more smooth because she will want to be having the fun you are having. So an easy thing to try would be:

"Hey Mehhhgan." just say her name with some enthusiasm whatever. try it before you do it.

immediately follow up with something else to say. I had problems with this haha. So jump into a funny bowling story, or anything really you can also use an observational opener. that easy. Invite her to lunch for the next day, drive in the same car to lunch and kick up the attraction when your together with what sasha was saying!. NICE. let me know

just say hi. routine and openers are overated

^^agreed

ya, first 2 replies pretty much summed it up man..just suck it up and walk up to the girl and talk to her. she's obviously playing some push pull on you. now its ur turn to play the same game..next time she locks eyes with you, walk right up to her and accuse her for having mind sex with you. then tell her that your not some kind of cheap whore and that its going to cost her $200/hr for that mind sex..if she starts giggling thats an ioi.. keep the game up by then givin her a lil nudge and laughing with her..then just transition into so, what were you thinking or where you headed, basically whatever to get the convo going and building some comfort, and always remember, work on the kino